I think it's over
I was in a way in teh same situation where I couldn't fuck a girl because I was to drunk to do so .
So I gave her some oral instead and played it out that I wasn't that easy to have sex with
Fucked her a couple of times afterwards, but my neediness fucked it up for me afterwards
I haven't heard from her in a week nor did she receive any news from my end.
Maybe a freeze out would be good at this point, (I think , no pro here

) so you can tell how much she really cares about you.
I would till oceanx/jackzero/hunter_foxe/..... reply to this thread before making any decisions or taking action.