In case anyone is still following this thread:

The AMOG-ing went better then expected. Her interest in the dude is fading, although he might still be a threat. Better still, our boss has not made a move on her (as I said, he dared me to fuck her), but he has a gigundo ego and aparently had a jealousy atack when he heard she went for a coffee with the fireman. Like "I don't want you, but also don't want him to get you". In fact it was so lame he even moved the meeting with the fireman for after my target left work. At least my target considered it jealousy, so I went with it and made a coment like "Humph... I never figured the guy to be so insecure". My target paused for a moment and said "yeah... neither did I..." The way I see it, it was AMOG-ing two birds with one stone.

Well, onto more pressing issues: Since that group hangout I mentioned my target seems a bit more open. In fact, she has been following me around the office wayyy more often. She has also called me a few times over the last few days to chat. She spends so much time around me it starts afecting my produtivity. Probably has something to do with me abandoning game. During the last few days a few threads popped up here about PU vs LTR. Since I want her for an LTR, I followed the general trend on those threads and abandoned my gaming attempts, concentrating on being a gentleman, funny, light kino, all that. She told me she has been burned by two fireman before (pun not intended) and that is why she is afraid to start a new relationship. Well, me being too sleezy an gamey probably did not help my case.

Today she told me she overheard a conversation between two colegues about a mardi gras party on a hot club in town next week. I said I'm down for it, expecting her typical "I only go if X Y and Z go", "I don't want to pay for the entry", etc. Unexpectedly, she asked "should we invite X Y and Z?". I opted to say yes. One has a gf wich uses the pants around the house and will not go. Or will go with his gf and spend all night with her as a good lapdog. The other two are cheap bastards and will probably bail out when they know they have to pay a price of admitance, so the way I see it I gave her trust not forcing to be alone with her and still I will probably end up alone with her.

Also, as I mentioned, she has a strong uniform fetish so when we were discussing costumes I sugested she goes as a cop since I'll be going as a mobster, so we kinda complement each other.

Any opinions, please, make your voice heard!

Since you are aiming for an LTR and don't mind waiting, there is a slight chance you are moving in the right direction.

Keep it up.

She flaked on me last friday night. Although I can understand why. A friend of mine invited me and some other guys to go for drinks at a local bar, with very little notice. So I called her to see if she wanted to tag along. She said she was going out with her friends, wich I already expected. I mean, a good looking girl with nothing to do on a friday night? And I called her with less than an hour's notice. Besides, she does not know my friends, so I kinda understand that one.

Still, she texted, facebook chatted and poked me yesterday. Probably to make sure I hadn't taken it personaly, so I want to believe that at some level she cares at least a bit to have me around. Gotta find a way to work on that and turn it in my favour.