You're making an awful lot of assumptions. Why is it important for you to have a label SPAM? Do you feel it will offer you some sort of security?

Im over these platonic little play dates where I cant even put my hand on your leg, good luck out there"

her response: Haha ok you too
my response: Perfect

It was probably over before this text which is why I sent a provocative one as sort of a hail mary, as she usually responds best to that, but think things were just a little too far gone - she was already in control. Although I am hurt and surprised at the coldness of her response considering all the dates I took her on and how hard I worked to give her a good time and make her happy...

Oh well, live and learn - thanks for the help guys!

Well done! You got the answer and the closure you needed. Now you don't have to waste another minute of your life with a girl who will get you nowhere.

You have choices available to you, so a woman needs to prove why she is worthy of fucking you. Treat women like shares on the stock market; invest in them for as long as they have proven to be profitable to you and get rid of them just after the interest has peaked and dropped slightly, yet still high enough that it could repeak again. Whatever the case, you should be in control at all times.