It's not that shes not into you, (she's still emailing you back) you just haven't created enough attraction or interest.

Say: "Ok no prob, never mind then. =)"

Just that. I'm feeling that she will call your bluff, but still the best thing to do is to freeze her out right now. She's not complying to you at all but there is still hope, she's still talking to you. Then wait till monday to initiate conversation. (during these next few days be sure to be talking to other girls to keep you from talking to her)

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man i have a feeling that saying that will end any chance of us hanging out ...remmeber...she NEVER EVER initiates. EVER.


except for the random "hiiiiiiiiiiii"

No it won't. This game is very counter intuitive. Stuff that most guys think wont work, actually works. Besides your just canceling that one date, it's not like your saying I never want to talk to you again. You will hit her back up on monday. She's not going to stop talking to you just because of that lol.

another option would be to say something like "Well sorry I can't do that, but that's the dress code to be out in public with me" (this wouldn't work if you already hung out with her in public)

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ive already hung out with her in public a couple of times.

and do i hit her up tomorrow saying that? and then dont hit her up until monday? or do i say that to her on monday?

Damn it, okay...

To be honest I don't think she will buy into these confident replies just yet because it's too much of a drastic change for her. So the best route is to ease into it slowly. In your situation you can't be as cold and willing to walk away as I would because it's not congruent with your personality that she knows. So the best thing to say is "okay then, wear some purple granny panties... thats hot"

This shows you don't get butt hurt or your not giving up but at the same time your not being needy or begging her.

Send that tomorrow and let me know what she says.

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wth! thats such a creeper comment though! lol...any other things i can say?

Wow it is actually amazing how you are not seeing that she doesn't like you. I'm outta this.

man i do see it... & im not gonna hit her up....

No it isn't, a girl will obviously know your joking. I have said stuff like this all the time and they always laugh...
Say "okay then, wear some purple granny panties... thats hot " (make sure to add the smiley, chicks love the smiley lol)

This guy saying that she doesn't like you, wrong. It's true that she isn't showing any attraction to you, but she is still emailing you back AND randomly saying "hiiiii", a girl would not say that to a guy she doesn't like. You're just on the fence with her. But you do need to freeze her out and hot hit her up for a while because she isn't complying to you.

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okay but she's just gonna say something along the lines of "ummm. no" again. if i ask her to wear granny panties... lol..

when should i say that by the way? Today?

Of course shes going to say no lol.

Okay let me explain, a woman is very much like a puppy dog... lol And you need to treat them like that, im not talking about kicking them out the house when they crap on the floor.. I'm talking about rewarding them when they are good to you, (for example, gives you compliment, calls/text you first, shows alot of interest, etc.) and you punish them for bad behavior by showing disinterest in her, ignoring/freezing her out, etc.

In her mind right now your the type of dude that doesn't handle rejection well (hence the "that is so annoying" comment she made after you replied to her flake)

So she said no to you again, the best thing to do is to SHOW her that you didn't get butt hurt, or felt like you where bothering her. Send that message today, then don't hit her up for a few days.

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Dude stop giving advice please, at least in this thread. This girl is not remotely interested. She is responding because she likes the attention he is giving him. Why? Because guess what, some girls are attention whores whose egos are built on the attention people, especially guys who have no chance with them, give them. When she's saying "hiii" she's saying "entertain me". Why the FUCK would you want to be that guy? What the fuck are you getting out of this? A MUCH better life lesson would be to let this one go and learn from what he did wrong and move on to other girls where he can get loads more experience.

There are key points in here that must be recited because you guys just don't get it:

1) This girl is not interested
2) This girl is using you for validation
3) By continuing to try game her you are going deeper and deeper down the rabbit hole, emotionally. You are decreasing your chances of ever getting with her with every message you send her
4) Even by just continuing this thread are you going deeper down the rabbit hole as you obsess over her more and more

That's the last thing I'm gonna say in this thread. I can't make it any clearer. If you want to lead him on and fuck up his chances then please be my guest, and if he takes your advice then I feel sorry because you are just not seeing the other side.

@beingattractive, im gona have to go with traveler on this one man..... i'll send that panty comment, but thats the end....

lol i love how everyones advice on this forum is usually "Just leave that whore bro! There is plenty of fish in the sea! She's nothing but a b*tch! MOVE ON!!!"

Fortunately when I was first learning this stuff this forum wasn't crowded with so many people like that. So I practiced on every interaction that I had. The only time I would move on is if she would ignore my text/calls or if she told me not to contact her. Which only ever happened to me once, this chick actually told me to delete her number from my phone. Then guess what? She came crawling back texting me at 4am acting like nothing had ever happended lol I learned so much from practicing on every girl that I was able to turn any situation around. Of course I later got good enough that I wouldn't ever have to do any damage control. So my point is, get as much practice from her as possible. Do that with every single girl you meet. It will only make your game better.

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True that....but don't you think that comes off as a "bug-a-boo"?