| Alright dude, you did a few good things, and some not so good things. This girl doesn't matter anymore, but just to conclude (from my part):
Firstly, the good things. You were in an uplifting mood. That's great. The fact that she said she feels like you don't care proves this. This was supposed to happen.
Also, great job following advice. You told her she was completely right, told her she is too sexy. You were congruent and honest in your intent.
She reacted almost like how predicted. Perfect.
Now, the bad things: You said it was getting to you. You showed you cared. Not a deal breaker, but not good.
Another thing is you stayed there way too long. The moment you said "we'll just see what happens" is then you should have left. You know this. That would have been perfect. You should have had a time-constraint; "I can only stay for X amount of time, because I'm meeting X later." This would mean you would HAVE to leave at a specific time, you're not giving her all of your time.
No biggie.
Your next move? Move on. There might be a flicker of hope here, sure. See what happens on Saturday. It is then YOUR decision to either go for it or leave it. If you DO go for it on Saturday, know that it could just be a one time thing, as alcohol will unleash her inner desire to be with you, but once she is sober she will maybe regret her decision and give you all the shit of "I shouldn't have given you false hope" again. This girl is an emotional wreck who doesn't know what she wants. She will fluctuate a lot. Almost to the point of attention seeking. Leaver her. She doesn't deserve the attention you give her. You have no time for that, it will bring you no positives in life.
My advice is to just move on from her. But good job!
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