Cheers for the advice I'll let you know how I get on.

i'm in an engineering major. there is only once decent looking girl, she has a bf and already all the guys kiss up to her. i've met other girls from campus but it is hard to keep up with them because we always tend to drift off. any ideas here guys ?

bro, in my opinion engineering girls are hard to chase. they are always surrounded by guys.

also what I found (im also engineering) is that you have to be bold, i see many hot girls end up with the FIRST guy who man'd up and took things to the next levels

What are some good openers to use if I see a girl eating at the dining hall by herself and I want to join her?

and another question, how do I open to a girl in a lecture hall just before class? Usually there are a lot of empty seats so it's hard to just sit down next to a girl that I would like to talk to.

Sitting down next to her isn't so hard. Once you sit down next to her conversation will sometimes start automatically. I have one class which is almost completely empty. So I went to sit next to the girl and told her all the seats are reserved and this is the only one open. It worked fine.. Set a very playful tone for the rest of our conversation. Obviously she is going to know why you are sitting next to her... Might just as well have fun with it. If she's alone you could make up all kinds of stuff to joke about etc.

Make a note that says "Come join me for causal conversation during lunch."

Place it on her table and walk to another table and begin eating. If she comes to you then you got her ass like a stray dog in a dog pound. If she doesn't then no problem, you didn't lose anything.

You don't want to cold approach her and do a bunch of lines and routines. No matter how good your approach she will feel pressure from you and you don't want to be that needy guy. But if you got enough drive to give her a respectful note and you give her the opportunity she will have the freedom to make a choice. That freedom is what makes and breaks the best. That's the liberating ability we all have that so many people forget, let the girl make the choice.

-Magnum

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I've done this many times. It never leads to anywhere.

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It sounds like you have a with your perspective. If there was really only one decent looking girl you wouldn't come to a PUA site. You would go a a sucide booth. Seriously though maybe this sounds cheesy but you might be looking at the wrong parts of the woman.

Engineering woman may not be sexy, but they got brains, and that's sexy. I bet if you found a nice smart girl with a good brain you could tell her to hike her skirt up a little more, apply some perfume and mascara and wink at you. Beauty is only external. I'm sorry to harp on you, but when you say there is only one decent looking girl I don't understand what you mean. Do you mean in your major, school, class, or the whole world? I just find it hard to believe that there is only one.

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You can still hook up with girls after they hear the bad rumors. It takes a little longer to overcome the rumors but you still can. Hitting on girls is an art. If this girl thinks you are a creep you came on to hard. So stop hitting on her back off and apologize for making her feel uncomfortable. Tell her you are working on your reputation and you'd appreciate if she didn't say bad things about you to other girls.

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I just got in college, but I skipped 2 years of it to enter the third year - and so I missed out on the social bond forming and party years.

How would I go about with this?

ok that came out wrong from my part... i meant to say that in my major (mechanical engineering) there are barely girls. we are 30 people i think and there are 2-3 girls, only one of them is good looking. there are plenty of other girls in other majors at my university.

why are engineering girls hard to chase? how are they different?

I have found girls in engineering+psychology slightly different from other majors. They tend to think over situations, hard to use attraction. Knowledge>Attraction

Anyways. Anyone from the South? University of Alabama?

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What's the college game? I can't find anything about it...

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MUsic - That what speaks for me
DAnce - That what gives you the signs
LAughter - That what keeps me joyfull
SQillz - That's what keeps me going!

I think one of the biggest things is having an apartment close to campus or big locations. You're not going to get any, if she has to travel 30 minutes to get to your place.