How would you do that? Im having problem with DHVs, mainly because i kinda have an interesting life, or at least some weird tales but i keep running into two problems

1) How you transmit those qualities (in my case being i know psycology, martial art, archery, ocultism, music, art) without sounding like like im bragging.

2) The same as the person who asked in the first place sometimes my conversations became one way. I keep reading about "making her invest all while keeping her interested as well" or similar terms but how exactly one does that. How you balance a conversation showing your best qualities without becoming one sided.

in another topic im having problem with the whole "display sexuality" thing, i listened to david deangelo talking about the subject i didnt quite get it. How you demostrate without crossing the line beteween being flirty and making it seem your intentions are to sleep with them.

Im not asking for every posible scenario but more of a couple of example in order to steer myself in the right direction

Hey mates, i will get right in my story (dont like writing much),

So i have moved to london about a week now, i am staying at a friends house, he has gone for business travel and i am staying here alone. But yesterday the other roomate came by with a friend she brought with her from greece, i give the name Tina to the roomate and to her friend Happy. So Tina and happy are about 28 or so... i am 24, Target is Tina which is an 8 at least. Now comes the bad part , she will get married soon , she has come here to take her clothes and stuff she left in this house and next weeek she goes back to greece. ( i am not so good with english so it may be a little confusing) So as i am very new in this community i want to see if its the real thing and ask a few TIPS for this situation. We talked yesterday but not alone , my sister and her boyfriend where here and so was tina and happy, we maked chitchat talked about hitler , diet and a lot of stuff... i was trying to catch up with the conversation and change subject to where i am good at or at least where i know stuff. As i made that i got those chicks to laugh , i got at least 1 IOI from tina (kino) but i noticed that she had tuched me about 3-4 times , but something prevented her, i think she was not comfortable with me to do so. At least ones she laugh and put here hand on my leg , like "hahaha @hand on leg@ " :you are so funny: something like that. I thought of it as an IOI. We had a lot of eye contact on our conversation but with the others it was difficult to approach intimate , so i let it go. What are you guys thinking of it? what can be made to get here laid? woud appreciate your help

The Greek

Is learning material from different sources good to combine say like some "Peacocking" with "NLP" and some "Sexual Tension", as I would like to get my game from B-Game to A-Game!!!

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Hey,
I'm a European guy, 100 % newbie in PUA.
Met a girl in library. At least 5 IOI, I think more (last week). I see her about 3 times a week: we have the same habitude (like many others) to study in this library. Today I had the feeling my value is decreased: I worked on a table in her range of vision. And when she left, she said nothing.

The mistakes I made some days ago: - I asked three times the same question (in three days) on facebookchat: 'U will go out tonight or u will study more (because she was doubting about)? I just wanted to talk to her, but in the end, all together, it expressed too much interest in her. - Second: there is nothing new in our conversations, it's up to me to tell something new, but I'm afraid to disturb her, since she is studying hard...

What do u think for next time I meet her:
If she wants to kiss me on the cheeck: "dont do, I have a cold" (problem: I take too many distance, so she doesn't make the movement to kiss me last days) - maybe I have to make the movement by myself and then 'remember' that I have a cold (which is true) --> but this is difficult to do naturally.
I'm planning to tell her that she is stressed, which is true. I will tell her some things that she has to believe in her own capacities and things like that. And that after the exams, we can go out, with friends of me and her, all together. Is this something? (because, earlier this week, she began about going out...). What do u think? Can I repair my faults?
SUMMARY:
Girl was realy interested in me. After some days: value descreased. Can I repair? How? Is my proposal something?
Greets,
Reco

How do you game a certain HB in a large group? This saturday, it's the birthday of this HB i'm gaming. We'll be out with a group of more than 10 people for lunch and karaoke. What kind of game should I play here? the thing is it's her birthday, so pretty much she gets the most attention out of everyone who's going to be there, and it's making me confused

Hi,

I've got a question about some behaviour a girl makes in classes when sitting next to me:

IOI's or not?

-leays her hair down her neckside next to me and brushes her hair every few minutes with the opposite hand, gazing into space

-strokes her entire arm next to me like a windscreen wiper with the opposite hand


I've get several IOIs days before, like long eyecontact with smile or some kino on my legs.
We had an argument and don't talk much at the moment.

I think the points in italic could be also just an indicator for hope in reconciliation.
But she did the hair thing (gazing into space, not at me) the days before the argument, too.


What do you think?

Sorry for my English!

Hey guys,
I’m Allen, I’m 26 and in good physical shape and been told I’m attractive.I am your typical nice guy who loses girls to jerks. I don’t know if my problem is AA, low self-confidence or something else. Maybe it’s a combo of all of them, but I don’t know and that’s why I’m here.

Here is a quick rundown on me
I live in a huge college town ( 4 girls for every 1 guy) and on Tuesdays, Fridays and Saturdays my friends and I usually go out to the bars /semi-Pro baseball games. Some bars have dance floors and some are more of a sports bar with TV’s everywhere. When I go out I often wear what I wore to work that day which is a solid or striped Ralph Lauren collared Polo shirt. Or a Long sleeve collared shirt with the sleeves rolled up and a nice pair of shorts (since its like 95 outside and 105 in a crowded bar) and a nice pair of jeans in the winter.

I worked in a open kitchen so I am OK with talking to random people about small talk ( Hey, How’s it going, the weather etc..) But when I am out alone or out with friends and I am standing next to a girl at the bar or they sit at the table next to us, I never say anything. If some of them are looking my way, I may look back to for a second or so but then I look away. (Not keeping eye contact has always been a bad habit of mine.) The girls I don’t see as potential targets I usually can talk to and be fine it’s the ones I find attractive that I can’t approach or talk to even if they are already my friends

I believe my problem has 2 parts.
1. Like a lot of guys I have this weird fear of rejection even when I know I will most likely never see them again… To go along with that I often feel like I’m being judged or analyzed and that I don’t have a chance with her because I am not as fun/ flirty and never get physical out of fear of making the situation awkward.
2. I don’t know what to say after we start talking. It usually ends up with a weird silence because I don’t want to talk about myself obviously but I don’t know what would be interesting enough to keep her attention.

So I guess my questions would be. What are some options that may help boost my self-confidence when meeting and talking to a girl(s) so that I don’t run out of things to talk about.
What would you say is the safest way to get physical once you have been talking for a while so that I can escalate it to the next step?


*I have been reading all the forums, watched the PUA show and have watched the MPUA videos

Thanks

Allen

I posted it before but didn't get a satisfactory answer.

the question is:

If I'm seeing a girl for over a month (we're not in a relationship),
Should I text/call her just to talk? (like when I have free time at work or just bored)

I'm afraid that if I won't it will get her to feel cheap as I'm talking to her only when I want to fuck her.
but If I will, it could kill the mystery and the attraction, and I may seem needy