Me: So my dad got a ticket. Can your bf get rid of it?
Her: Where did he get the ticket at?
Me: (LOCATION)
Her: nuhuh. its out of his district..sorry. Can he take a class instead of paying for it?
Me: Lol kkkkkkkkkkkkk hes just gonna pay for it.
Her: Oh ok. sorry. And hes not my bf.
(AWWW YEAH!)
Me: Coming over now.
Her: Lol I thought you saw me as like your little sister. Groddy
Me: Geez I have the weirdest boner now. Thanks
Her: Hahahahah thats so awkward. Youve been acting weird around me lately - is that why? bc you have boners around me? lol
Me: Thats funny because I was gonna say the same about you.
Her: I havent been acting weird. I'm still me.
Me: no youve been really different. guess youre to get back in the game.
Her: i guess. im rusty. hahaha

I'm leaving it at that...gonna respond in the AM.

hahaha nice I'm definitely using this

lmao... *Update*?

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thanks brah, worked it all out.

I could of sworn you said you were interested? lol

Usually when you stuck on what to say its because no real connection was established during the initial interaction. However, she seems interested in you so this will be an easy pull if you want it. Just lean back and keep letting her make all the moves, Personally I would call her to ramp up attraction and solidify that connection, followed by inviting her over to my place that same night. With a line line " WHy aren't we having this conversation in person?" "Blah blah blah, " " Come on over, get dressed, you have an hour"..

If you don't have the balls to make a phone call just yet then just text her something related to that night. Pick up where you guys left off; I wasn't there, and one text message isn't enough for me to gauge whats going on

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I met this chick in the grocery store and chatted her up and got the digits. She's a bartender at a Hooter's clone restaurant. I have always been a victim(?) of talking too much via text and being aimless, so lately I've been trying to be more aggressive. Critique me:

Me: Hey ____ (and included her place of work because this is how I told her jokingly to enter it into my phone, it's djambush. Now you got my info, so you can hit me up when you the uncontrollable urge to talk to me.

Her: Lol ok djambush...tell me about yourself.

(I don't like these types of qualification type questions - advice would be appreciated)

Me: What do you want to know?

Her: The basics...what u do, age, hobbies, etc.

Me: I'll get cramps trying to type all that jazz. If you really want to know, come get a drink Tuesday. I know a cool spot around the corner.

edit: I think I haven't built enough attraction...still haven't heard back from her a few hours later...

Met this girl at work. We started simple texting. Then, we started sex texting. She texts me all day/night. We recently had sex. She says she realized after sex there is only one: her boyfriend. After, we've had sex she texts me starting in the morning, and we text back and forth until the late night.

The problem is now I have feelings for her ....which I hate because it makes me feel weak.

Is this something that should be pursued? Honestly, I want to know how to handle this and how you see this?

I think they've been dating a year?
She's 19



Thanks

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I have no idea where the first test message ends since the parentheses doesn't close, though I may have figured it out..

The first text message was a bit weak; you contacted her to tell her to contact you when she has time? You just "DLV"(i hate these pua terms) yourself because you are giving the appearance that she is busier than you. When you text you want keep it interesting from start to the point when you just stop typing her.

Think of it as a rocket waiting for takeoff to outer space.... The First text message should be like a rocket blasting away with power and force, and every text message after that is just adding fuel to the tank making sure the rocket gets to its destination. And once you get her "OUt of space" mentally, you stop responding; and she will begin texting you for fuel to get back to earth. Let me know if you get this..

Keep you're text messages FF(Fun & Flirty)as much as possible. Take the time and read the text message over to you're self before you send it and if its not fun according to you're standards then don't send it. Too many guys get caught up in the whole "This is all i can think of so fuck it, i'm sending it" which is lazy and it just doesn't work. Keep it fun

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Although I don't like messing with girls with boyfriends; if you just play it cool, laid back and unaffected she will keep coming back for more. She's telling you the things about the boyfriend to test you; she wants to see if it effects you. And if it does,she will get scared you'll tell someone and her boyfriend will find out. So just play it cool and get you're feelings in check. Who catches emotions over a girl cheating on her boyfriend anyway ?

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Ok, thanks. So what now? I still havent heard from her. I was thinking about texting her today then calling her tonight. Could you give me a good starting text?

I opened her with a joke about finger polish she was looking at - I said which of these colors works with my skin tone?

So today, Im thinking of going back with "You were right about the hot pink. My coworkers all say it brings out my eyes." Or maybe go the other way "You were sooo wrong about the hot pink...what does a turkish hooker look like anyway?" Bleh.

Hey Eddie. Background: opened a girl and her friend on the street. Fun banter, Turns out shes a pharmacy student. She being difficult, and I don't know where to go next.

DM
Pharmacist! Uncross those arms (I kept fixing her body language) Good Night - Unbelievably attractive Canadian boy.

Her
Unbelievably hahah i fell asleep early last night..

DM
Haha nights out aren't really for you guys. Lights out at 9.30

Her
Heh dude, we accidently walked by from the dry cleaners.. You don't know us when we're in 'our element'

DM
Smart and wild?! Mom always warned me about girls like you. You know I'd call you to the game tonight but maybe its better to meet during the day-- safety first!

Her:
We're totally dangerous....

DM
Haha big trouble I like it!

Her
Exactly that!

(Next day)

DM
So I met this cute pharmacist... Kinda want to flirt with her, what should I say?

Her
Quite original :Pppp

DM
Its from this book im reading "How to get a girlfriend".. What do you think, do I have a chance?

Her
Read it to the end, and then we'll see

DM
I mention one self help book, and you're already offering to be my gf. Lets take it slow!

Her
Dang. Its because im not as discrete as you

DM
what can i say. I broke my only rule when i met you..

Her
Whats the rule?

DM
'I will not take numbers from girls when i go out anymore'. You seemed cool, so i made an exception.

Her
I see you have bad experiences. Maybe you should really take less numbers?

DM
Some good and some bad ones. Depends on how you look at things. What about this number? Did I make the right choice?

Her
Sorry I fell asleep... It really depends on how you look at things.


Thoughts? I concede it was sloppy, but where can I go from here (or should I just move on)?

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Hey man, I had quite a bit of trouble understanding you're text dialog, maybe you could read it over again and edit it a bit and add a more descriptive intro..

Although, you guys really under estimate the power of a phone call, a solid phone call is the difference between getting the girl over to you're place that night or just going on some boring dinner date. I haven't had to go on a date with a girl that wasn't my girlfriend already in a long time just because I know how to handle myself over the phone. A phone call gives you a direct 1 to 1 connect with her brain without any outside factors. Start calling girls, this goes for all of you guys. You will be happy with the results

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Yeah, the thing is, I had to translate from my language back to English so I guess it looks choppy. Ill edit it and post below. The thing is, I met these two girls on the street, they were heading out to some nightclub, and I stopped them. There was good banter going on, and since my friends were waiting, I decided to get their #'s in case we went to the same club. Anyways, my friends had to go early, so we called it a night. Still I texted both of them a good night text, and this one replied. I was hoping you could let me know where I stand with this girl. I find I often get to this point where I feel its too soon to go for a day 2, so I get stuck in between at a point like this. I guess I don't know what to make from her responses, hard to get, or just not interested?

DM
Pharmacist! Uncross those arms (I kept fixing her body language) G'nite! -Unbelievably attractive Canadian boy.

Her
Unbelievable (didnt really get that either) hahah i fell asleep early last night.. (she texted me next morning)

DM
Haha going out isn't really for you guys. Lights out at 9.30

Her
Haha dude, its because we just happened to be walking back from the dry cleaners.. You should see us when we're in 'our element'

DM
Smart and wild?! Mom always warned me about girls like you. You know I'd call you to the game tonight (Euro finals was on) but maybe its safer to meet during the day-- safety first! (callback, I joked about how I got really nervous around girls)

Her:
We're quite dangerous....

DM
Haha big trouble I like it!

Her
Exactly !

(Next day)

DM
So I met this cute pharmacist... Kinda want to flirt with her, what should I say?

Her
Thats original :Pppp

DM
Yeah, its from this book im reading "How to get a girlfriend".. What do you think? Do I have a chance?

Her
Finish it and then we'll see

DM
I mention one self help book, and you're already offering to be my gf. Slow down!

Her
Dang, I'm just not as discrete as you.

DM
Well I DID break my only rule when i met you..

Her
Whats your rule?

DM
'I will not take numbers from girls when i go out anymore'. But you seemed cool, so i made an exception.

Her
I see you've had bad experiences. Maybe you should consider taking fewer numbers? :p

DM
Some good (experiences) and some bad ones. Depends on how you look at things. What about this number? Did I make the right choice?

Her
Sorry I fell asleep... Well I guess it really depends on how you look at things. (she just copied what I said above)


I hope I've clarified. Like I said, its hard to tell if shes just playing hard to get or not interested. The latter I think. I feel this day 2 transition is a consistant sticking point. What to say now?

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I know this girl from a yr.
Fb Conversation (after few minutes of general chat )
me-can u do a favor 4 me...
hb- ya wht ?
Me- just smile u look cute when u smile
hb- lol. u being cheesy ha
me-na since many days i haven't seen u smile
hb- woho =D
me- hahaha
u wanna b class incharge ? (i m in college )
hb - r u mad ? No way
me- ya i m crazy but just for you baby
I sent this msg yesterday evening she didn't reply she was online today as i saw some updates on her profile. Why she did not reply ? n one more thing i have her phone no but we were not in contact for about 3-4 months. Since we had some quarrel but things seem to ok now. Help

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