Affirmations Reshape Your Reality : Subjective Reality

You can think of affirmations as changing your subjective perception of reality. That way you feel changes because the way you see things changes. Perception is reality. If you think a bully hits like a girl he isn't intimidating. Think about it...

A good example of an affirmation is a recommendation. Lets say for a job. Someone says a few things and then someone else believes something about a person.

Belief shapes everything about our reality. Body language, how things are said, who said it all shape our beliefs. When you think about something you really believe you think of the law of gravity, what goes up comes down. You believe this because of how consistency, compelling consistency... Same thing with affirmations...Its the consistency of seeing something going up and down repeatedly and the compelling nature of seeing that.

Understanding Pyschological Drivers and Barriers

When you believe something it creates a feeling, an instinct within you. When you think something bad will happen you get fear and when you think something good will happen you get a positive feeling. You know when you sit down at your computer you don't fear that your chair will just break and fall to the ground (although it might be old, and although you might have prankster friends); you TRUST, and so there is no negative feeling. There is a feeling of trust within your subconscious like "its ok, your fine, just sit." It feels good and you don't even think about it. Likewise, you don't think you are going to get hit by a car when you are walking on the side walk. So the affirmations give you these subconscious feelings, that push you to do certain things and makes you more comfortable with certain things.

Let's say you make a mistake with a girl. People always say act like nothing happen or give it some time. Why? Well when you give it time the girl eventually forgets what happened and the negative feeling she got about you dissipates. If you make a really strong impression, something that can't be forgotten then none of this time stuff and forgetting about it really works...see when understand emotions are pushing you to do certain things you'll understand how when a girl gets a negative feeling she just starts to rationalize everything against you.

Why does the repitition of affirmations work? Its that consistency. That repetiveness. That hearing it again and again and again that the feeling starts to get stronger. Same way with the law of gravity. It goes up and it comes down, it goes up and it comes down, it goes up and it comes down you just get surer and surer and surer; this is a conviction, that got surer and surer the more you experienced it. The same with hearing things again and again.


Some people on here have doubted me, but I am not just pulling this stuff out of my ass. I quote boxers, I quote military, I quote successful people. You know if a boxer believes some bullshit they are going to get fucked up! The can get there face mashed in, they can get knocked out, they can die. Same way with the military, if you talking bull shit then the conseuqnces are fatal. I'm not just pulling this shit out of my ass. I'm pulling this from my EXPERIENCE and the EXPERIENCES of others.

"fire shall try every man's work of what sort it is." 1 Corinthians 3:13

Why do guys fail at the AMOG? well the amog usually catches off guard, by surprise. You don't know whats going on and this creates a disruptive and distracting feeling of anxiety. Then you also don't know what to do. By staying calming, using a affirmations to do so and knowing what you will do in particular situations before they arise are really helpful. Also, looking for decisive factors to make a decision are really helpful. But, the idea of knowing what you are going to do before hand. having a plan gives you confidence.

All confrontations are either sudden or built. THe sudden confrontation usually has that surprise factor with anxiety. The confrontation that you have to wait on like a kicker being ice can really break you down. However, the more time you have to wait the more time you have to mentally prepare for what must be done. The more time you have to build will and confidence

Keep it Real

Sometimes the hardest thing is just thinkg for yourself. People will fight you tooth and nail sometimes just to convince you that what they believe is right. So its hard just to believe what you want to believe. THere is a lot of inertia you have to go against. And what you have to realize is a lot of people have bullshit inside of them. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6cyXO5tO6kw They have a lot of bullshit inside of them. Bullshit ideals and bullshit feelings. And these things lead to impractical, unpragmatic judgment. You can actually be enslaved by morality and idealism and romanticism to the point of ridiculousness because "there is the way it is and there is the way it ought to be." And you really can't see this until your beliefs and feelings are tried by some kind of fire, by some hard reality.

Realities in dating: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SyYJcHktNs

1.) Girls don't like you because you like them
2.) People hurt your feelings and get away with it
3.) No one will be responsible for your feelings but yourself.
4.) Girls flirt with guys and lead them on just for their ego
5.) Other guys will take your girls with no regrets.
6.) Crying won't get you a girl
7.) yelling won't get you a girl.
8.) Complaining, bitching and moaning won't get you a girl
9.) Girls Lie, girls cheat, girls use you
10.) You make mistakes and girls laugh at you, talk about you and look down on you.
11.) Girls make disrespectful comments.
12.) Girls will lie to you and have double standards.
13.) People die lonely


In some ways the idealist and moral man has to be more ruthless and colder than the heartless man, because he has taken the task of not just living in the world and getting by but making the world, but BENDING THE WORLD INTO THE WAY IT OUGHTA BE.


The cold hard reality is this if you like a girl, even if you LOVE A GIRL and your game is not on point. IF YOUR GAME IS NOT TIGHT. SOMEONE ELSE WILL PULL HER, SHE WILL LOVE HIM, AND HE IS GOING TO FUCK HER! HE'S GOING TO FUCK HER!....smack her ass and scream his name. Now man up son!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-86nvBVjaY

Tyson talking about fighting being nerve racking at first, 13:45-14:15 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tey_vaT2 ... re=related

Floyd affirming himself, at 4:00-5:00 (while running 10 miles)
http://www.boxing-core.com/videos/_Mayw ... 29&tid=110

The affirmations are supposed to be: Affirming Maxims....

Affirming Maxims.

One last thing my style of confidence is a self-affirming Blind faith coupled with a commitment to the risk of complete humiliation that is driven by a deep and fervent passion.

A Word of Encouragement




An affirmation is doing 1 of 3 things. 1.) Helping you to deal with a feeling. 2.) Replacing a feeling or 3.) Instilling a feeling.

Have you ever notice people making out in public. You're on this dating site and probably want a date so you probably have and you probably have been envious!

Well, 2 people in public in front of every body are just making out, tongue kissing, and touching and feeling and they don't give a damn that everyone is watching them! they don't give a shit! they don't give a rats ass! do you know why?! do you know why?! because it feels good. IT feels good. IT FEELS SO GOOD that they don't give a fuck about how you see them.

Because of how they feel, because of how they feel! This is what affirmations do, they change how you feel! So situations that would be embarassing, that would be intimidating, that would be stressful are not because you feel so fucking good! Shit this ain't rocket science.

This is what confidence is about man; FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND FEELING GOOD ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING. Manhood is self-confidence! Manhood is self-confidence! MANHOOD IS SELF-CONFIDENCE!

Without self-confidence, everything becomes intimidating, everything becomes painful and too hard! "I can't do this and I can't do that, Its too hard, I suck, and I ain't worthy. I am not good enough!" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAdLruOIKmA

Shit get full of yourself. Get full of faith. Get full of desire. Get full of enthusiasm, Get full of what you do. Feel it every damn day. Feel it in your bones. Feel it in your bone gristle. Believe. Jump in head first.

But you don't hear me because I am talking about INTANGIBLES!

I THINK THEREFORE I AM MOTHER FUCKER! I THINK THEREFORE I AM! start getting positive. Start getting positive. Then see how you feel changes and then see how what you do changes.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BvkQU95BbmE

And if you don't believe it, go to hell. I will argue this until my BONES ROT!

SEE YOURSELF DOING THINGS YOU THINK YOU CAN'T! SEE YOURSELF DOING THINGS YOU THINK YOU CAN'T DO! SEE YOURSELF DOING THINGS YOU THINK YOU CAN'T DO!

A HEART FILLED WITH FAITH CAN'T FEAR!

The Common Man

Approaches- people have similar fears and people have similar fears about the approach. Just like the guy is nervous about the approach (whats going to happen?), the girl is nervous. The girl does not know you! The girl does not know what to expect from you. So until she figures gets a feel for who you are her own anxiety (about who is this and what does he want) can work against you.

Fear Now fear is either real, imagined or conditioned. Real is like the fear of getting hit by a car when crossing a street. Imagined is like the fear of a monster under your bed. Conditioned is like being disrespected everytime you talk to people so you are afraid of talking to people. Fear of real things (to some extent) is good because it protects you. Imagined fears are good to because it protects you from the unknown, but they can be bad as they make you afraid of things that are not real. Imaginary fears are easiest to conquer because they are eradicated with experience. Conditioned fears that come from experience are the hardest to get rid of, maybe they are even permanent.

Demonstrating Value- demonstrating value is most important if you want to game as the Prize. When you demonstrate enough value women will lose all self-respect trying to chase you. Its really interesting to see. A Shock and Awe demonstration of value is usually the easiest way to get a girl or to make a comeback with a girl. Celebrities have so many groupies because they demonstrate such high value.

How to Develop Toughness: A Love of the Game

The goal of this art form is to become so proficient that you begin to expect to succeed. That is when you are good at this. Then when you expect for your approach to go well then you will naturally want to approach more.

However, just like losing is a part of every sport it can also be a part of pick up. I said before you have toughness when you expect to get through something. However, you also have to have the desire to get through it. Lets say you know you can swim 2miles, you are confident that you can do it, but do you want to do it? So when it comes to pick up and you want to be able to do it no matter the results you have to have a love for the game. You have to a strong desire to just go out and approach no matter what happens. You have to take satisfaction in doing pick up just do it. It has to be fun for you. I mean just talking to the girls, just the interactions, just meeting the people, just having sometype of impact on their life. I like to meet girls and leave them in a better mood, or raise their confidence and self-esteem even. I love that. So if you want to be able to do approaches no matter what you need to have: LOVE OF THE GAME. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPiaoPCt ... ure=relmfu

For whatever reason of your own, you need a pyschological satisfaction just from playing the game. Also getting in the habit of being enthusiastic about all your approaches helps.

Have You Gone Soft?

You hear this all the time, but what does it mean to go soft? It is when you start submitting to pressure, to fear, to temptation. It is when you stop fighting the pain and start giving in to it. This is a habit, a certain temper of the will. You know you start relaxing on your diet and now you're suddenly fat. You know going with the flow a little bit and then you find yourself lost in the ocean. You have a bad habit and now its really hard to deal with. Turn off the porn, its a waste of time. No pain , no gain. Sacrifice is the only way to make progress.

You're not going to want to approach women until you get some type of satisfaction/pleasure from the appraoch. The easiest way to get satisfaction from an approach is to expect success. You expect success by having success approaching women. (This is kind of a what comes first, a bird or the egg scenario) Before you have success approaching women you have to find a way to make yourself confident without having any experience yet. You do this by having a plan (knowing what you are going to do removes an element of uncertainty that can cause anxiety), by dressing nicely (when you look good you feel good and that good feeling gives you a litte security), by practicing what you are going to do so much until it becomes automatic (when you do this you know what you are going to do) and by affirmations (the words in your ear egg your self on to do it.) Confidence is ultimately just a feeling and feelings can be manipulated.

When you expect to get rejected, you expect to be laughed at by others, or you have no idea whatsoever whats going to happen when you approach the woman you will DREAD approaching her. You will act like a stubborn mule too because your feelings will be trying to protect you from getting hurt. Now, you can overcome this feeling with desire, a desire so strong that you don't care what happens. The best example of someone overcoming fear with desire is when someone gets angry; they no longer care what the consequences are they just are just so upset that they don't care. Its a funny thing about people, and it shows the power of fear and doubt, when blissful sex could come from approaching a girl but a man still does not have the desire to approach; its curious thing to consider.

Now, you could just have fun with approaches, but I doubt most people do that.

So, you're not going to want to approach until you get some pleasure from doing so and these are the options to do that:

1.) Expect Success
2.) You want to do it so bad you don't care
3.) Just have fun

And, you get to feel those three ways by your mindset, by your perspective how you see approaching and you change that with AFFIRMATIONS.

1.) To Function even when you are nervous: Practice and Practice well.
2.) You have to take pleasure in the approach or you will always be hesistant to approach
3.) To change how you feel use affirmations.

Goodluck

The Behavorialist:

The behaviorilist tells you to just do it. A behavriorlist reduces everything to a habit. Actions are habits and thoughts are habits. To some extent this is true, behave like a man and you will think like a man and you will feel like a man.

So, the behavioralist would tell you just do it, just approach the girl. Just approach women and the more you approach women the more comfortable you will get doing it. Well, if you approach women a lot and get in the habit of doing it you will get the urge, within, to approach women.

However, the behavioralist ignores the fact that habits are not the only instincts that humans have. Fear is the strongest instinct because people want to survive., so it takes a lot just to start doing something because you have to get over your fear. That's why you need confidence. That's why you need desire. People are not just robots.

Ultimately you want to use confidence and use desire through affirmations to replace your fear then you want to get successful experience to solidify your feelings of confidence and desire then you want to have so many successful experiences that your approaching becomes a strong habit (mentally and action).