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hey Impetumus, was just reading your topic. The title caught my attention.
Seems like you fucked it up pretty bad uh. Dont let yourself down. Learn with your mistakes. Let me tell you, PUA material material helps, but sometimes we tend to overthink when the answer is common sense!
You said the feeling are mutual, you got invited, you are building comfort...why would you take a steps back and work on the attraction again?! You are so overthinking that you contradict yourself. You dont want to telegraph too much interest, BUT at the same time you were thinking of using peacock theory to "be at her level"?! You dont want to show too much interest, but you want stand in the middle of potential seducers? Its her birthday but you want her attention?! dont you think you were gonna be taking steps back?
Wanna get rid of competition, keep them busy. Introduce them to all the girls you are with. Engage into typical guys talk with them. Show them you are cool, every1 likes you and that if they disrespect you, that will work against them! Open other sets... introduce your competitors to the new sets. Show confidence to your target showing you dont feel intimidated by the competiton.... bla bla bla...
im gonna stop here... give it a thought!
Yeah, but I screwed it up badly. I talked about the guy she hooked up with last Saturday. Well, she kept seeing him, and she sayes that he's the GUY. Nothing happened between them that week, they were just talking, they saw each other on sunday, monday, and today. She is one of those girls who can easily fall in love, and he is a good guy. She didn't wanted to get fucked that night, she just wanted to have someone by her, someone who will complete her, and take care of her.
Fuck it, I couldn't be that guy even if I wanted to be.
I am kind of depressed right now, but pain (emotional just as phyisical) is here for a reason. To teach us something. I sure have learned a bunch from it.
I'm not giving up, just as @Hinduplaya said, there will be humps on my PUA path. This was big one, but I'll recover from it...
Thanks guys, to all of you. When I first saw this forum I thought of all of you as impotent nerds trying to get laid. And now, I'm one of you, and I understand what is pick-up all about. It's about understanding the greatest mystery of all... THE WOMAN...
Continue on lads, I wish you quick recovery from your bumps & humps that you'll run in to on you road of becoming PUA....
Sincerely yours, Impetumus
CHAT