Dude, no offense but this is something I've constantly bitched about on this board. The fact that guys use the rating scale a little too grandiose. There is so many people here that claim they associate and or hook up with 9's, 9.5's and 10's. I barely ever give myself that much credit and for me to rate a chick a 9, she has to be completely head-turning stunning.
You seem like much too big of a newbie to have this many 9's around you. There's no way you would be able to attract this unless you had drop-dead gorgeous male model looks or some kind of mystical social proof to beat hell. It just doesn't make sense. Therefore, I never usually respond to the posts on this board where I think is the case is a skewed sense of aesthetic judgement. I let those posts go and almost every one of them (and there are a ton) get absolutely zero response from me. I'm not trying to toot my own horn and say that I'm cocky, I get hott chicks but I still don't rank them very high because I think I'm the bomb. I just simply put this HB scale on the judgement of how it's supposed to be. I'm not gonna argue about another HB scale ratings post either. This stuff isn't as relative as people think. It's much more absolute. There is a way to game a chick that most people think is a 9 and there is a totally different way to game a chick that most people think is a 7.
Case in point: If you happen to be a nasty looking dude with nothing going for himself, my 6 might be your 10. Regardless though, you cannot neg this chick no matter how low-level you consider yourself. This girl simply cannot be negged, ever. Even if she's a 10 in your eyes. Therefore, as you can see, it's pointless for me to offer advice on how to hit on this girl because it could be the worst advice ever if I'm thinking of this girl's looks completely different than how you see her.
I'm not saying that this is the case with you in particular... I'm just having to make this point once again. Okay? Love ya though bro! No hard feelings!
