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PostPosted: Wed May 18, 2011 7:02 am 
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o ok yea well the girl knows i like her bc i told her and ive only texted her once since that revalation and that was nearly a month ago. All thats happened since I told her how I felt was the drunk text joke, her sending me a dumb video, and me teasing her about sending me a stupid video on her friends status. She never texted, called, or imed me back to tell me how she felt. I think Ive handled myself pretty well for being so hung up on her.

Im sure she told some of her friends that I told her how I felt about her, but I act normal around them and dont bring her up to them. I get along w her friends fine. These feelings are going to have to fade for her if Im going to be seeing her on a frequent basis again along with her friends back in the Fall. I hope 3 months is long enough to get over her.


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PostPosted: Wed May 18, 2011 7:13 am 
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I think Ive handled myself pretty well for being so hung up on her.
Yes, you seem to me to have the right kind of attitude in regard to this oneitis of yours and women in general. Just keep it up man, and you'll be good!

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Thanks a lot man, yea as much as she and the oneitis has tortured my mind, Im glad I havent let it consume me on the outside and make me look bad to her and her friends and come off as creepy or stalkerish. Its been really tough but Ill finally be able to let it go in due time. Any recommendations on how to get over her faster than the GFTOG strategy?


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I would delete her off my facebook but I dont feel thats the right way to handle the situation. I hid her so I dont see her posts or anything. Should I do that with her friends as well?


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PostPosted: Wed May 18, 2011 3:26 pm 
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just find something else to do to get your mind off that. theres plenty of fish in the sea! the best way to forget a girl is to find a new one


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Any recommendations on how to get over her faster than the GFTOG strategy?
Have as many "new" things in your life as you can. Go to have some adventures with your friends or just you alone.
Simply new experiences that are completely unrelated to her.

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yea is it weird that I think I have a shot at winning her over in the future? Bc were in a situation where we see eachother on a frequent basis but thats not really important to me Im just gonna do me and have fun w my own friends and meet new people, girls etc


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PostPosted: Thu May 19, 2011 6:06 am 
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I think this may be a good example of cat theory. When she has you by the balls she doesn't want you, but when you ignore her, her interest in you spikes. Basically, I would recommend moving on, because she only wants you when she doesn't have you. So GFTOG(Go find/fuck ten other girls) That is the one good oneitis cure.
This is very true, Before i learnt PUA I had the same encounter with a girl (very high value girl) i met at work one night (i worked in a bar) I don't know how i attracted this girl at the time because i didn't know any material.. but i played it very cool, demonstrated very high value, as i had something she wanted (free drinks) anyway she ended up coming back a couple times and we started getting to know each other, she was the biggest flirt i had ever seen, she would say things like i was her boyfriend to people i worked with and she only came in to see me, anyway after a while of getting to know each other she started throwing me shit tests (asking if i would get things for her, drive her somewhere, free drinks) at the time i didn't see them but i do now, so basicly once she realised she had me how ever she wanted, all her interest faded very quickly, it also didn't help when i didn't escalate when we were alone one night. I am so aware of what i did wrong now but at the time i had no idea.


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