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I think this may be a good example of cat theory. When she has you by the balls she doesn't want you, but when you ignore her, her interest in you spikes. Basically, I would recommend moving on, because she only wants you when she doesn't have you. So GFTOG(Go find/fuck ten other girls) That is the one good oneitis cure.
This is very true, Before i learnt PUA I had the same encounter with a girl (very high value girl) i met at work one night (i worked in a bar) I don't know how i attracted this girl at the time because i didn't know any material.. but i played it very cool, demonstrated very high value, as i had something she wanted (free drinks) anyway she ended up coming back a couple times and we started getting to know each other, she was the biggest flirt i had ever seen, she would say things like i was her boyfriend to people i worked with and she only came in to see me, anyway after a while of getting to know each other she started throwing me shit tests (asking if i would get things for her, drive her somewhere, free drinks) at the time i didn't see them but i do now, so basicly once she realised she had me how ever she wanted, all her interest faded very quickly, it also didn't help when i didn't escalate when we were alone one night. I am so aware of what i did wrong now but at the time i had no idea.