Not necessarily. You do not know how powerful thoughts and/or behaviors can be misleaded by emotions. So no, people do not control their decisions making that well when emotional.

Again, I am not his match maker or anything; I just want him to know that your response is not valid as spot on as it is. Like I've mentioned before, you do not know the girl's side of the story.

So how can you decide what is best for them? It is not like you are in his shoes and know the background from his eyes. You only see what and how he tells you. Only he knows what is best for them and you do not achieve this by assumptions.

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Are you stupid or something? None of Kasabi or counter perspectives here are contradictory. They complement each other with different angles. If you see otherwise, do explicitly point out the conflicting points. Otherwise, go troll somewhere else. They will appreciate you there more.

Mr. 69 posts, get out of here. Lol. We're you the moron talking about, "do what's best for the girl?". What about what's best for him? Not "what he feels right". Quit pedastooling pussy, that's why you finish last.

Ether'd.

By doing what is best for 'them', I mean take into account the full context of the situation.

Sure, the OP can do what is best for him too, but isn't this contradicting Kasabi's original intention? Kasabi's wants the OP to stay the fuck away from the girl he likes.

So I guess what is best for OP is to give up on someone he still likes and wants who may also probably want him back. How do you know the girl's telling the truth about her side of the story? You don't .

Did you even read the OP's post before you commented?

Wow you're dumb. Taking account of the full situation, huh... This trick told him that she's developing feelings for an employee at work! Da fuck?? I would've dutted this braud right then and there. Give her the one two knockout, bang bang.

And you're sitting here talking about taking full context of the situation. I should slap you right now.

"How do I know she's telling him the truth"... So you're telling me this trick is just trying to... play games? Saying she likes this person at work, to make him jealous. If that's the case, I still would've dutted this chick. (If I were him) How mature is this girl to still be playing games?

Will - Don't stick with the home team, stick with the best team. Find another girl. You're giving your love to her, and she's not giving it back. What's that one saying... "If you love something, let it go. If it doesn't come back, it was never yours to begin with".

Point 1: The full situation is her side of the story that the readers here do not know of. The OP is giving us facts based on his perspectives. This excludes the motives behind what the girl said.

Do you know why the girl said she was going to dumb him for some guy who she just met for two months versus him who she has spent together for 4 years?
Should you experience a similar scenario and do what you said you would do in such scenario, you risk not taking account what the girl really meant. You have to see things beyond just words. We have been doing this for ages as humans.

The girl may not be very mature at all which is exactly my point that you and I the readers do not know. This statement proves itself.

Reply to your post add.

"If you love something, let it go. If it doesn't come back, it was never yours to begin with"

The quote is saying some times you have to let go especially in the event that you are the one doing all the trying, but sometimes the girl could also be holding on to such beliefs. Then what? You both waiting for each other thinking that if the other one comes back, you try again. You both end up never coming back cause both waiting for other to make move first.

Then why would you stay with an immature chick? To lie to you, because she's "immature". There are plenty of other girls out there that look finer than this chick, and have more maturity.

Quit sucking this girls clit, you're gonna get herpes.

You stay with her because you realize that you still want her and she still wants you.

and that what the girl said is meant to keep you.

I understand you wanna be with her

I just don't understand why you would wanna be with her..? you've been with her for years, gone around the world and shit. and she ditches you for some guy after a couple of months.. isn't she supposed to be commited to you or something. shouldn't she build you up when you're weak.?

not piss on you.

I guess you can say it's your own fault for not having your life in perfect order blah blah blah. bullshit blah. but she pissed on you when you were down..
would you wanna marry a woman like this.. get years down the line and find out she sucking off her boss? and she be all like.. "oh i couldn't help myself the emotions were too strong to ignore".

oh and one more question i know you don't wanna think about it but,
would you still take her back after she screwed her boss?
I mean now... not if you were married blah blah blah theoretically speaking.
I mean the girl this thread is about if she screws/makes love to him will you still take her back?
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That is the thing. You or I do not know what the girl is really thinking and her motives. So if we tell OP to give up or think a certain way without taking into account the full context, it skews the thinking.

Are you retarded... or are you just messing with me?

Quit assuming she wants him. Go what's on the paper. You weren't there, so base it off the facts.

She doesn't want him. Get over it. If she did, she would contact him.

Now quit misguiding people like you know your material. You don't know crap.

Apparently, you did not understand a single part of the whole discussion we had had. I said, we do not know the relationship between her and him and her motives.

How old are you anyways? If younger than me, then I don't mind. But if you're older than me, then holy fuck, you need to get ur IQ checked. And stop sucking up to people who has no credentials. Kisabi's a fucken taxi driver.

So because he's a taxi driver, he doesn't know shit? You ignorant piece of shit, I should slap you with my fat dick. Kasabi fucked my girlfriend of 3 years. We loved each other. She bought me so much shit, I had to deny it because I felt bad for accepting it. She wanted me to move into her house, the whole 9 yards.

Me and Kasabi are cool now.. he didn't even know she was dating me. (And before this incident, we didn't know each other) Apparently, Kasabi met her 2 weeks before sleeping with her. I'm not going to lie, at first, I was heart broken... But then Kasabi came at me, we talked, and I realized he's one smart dude with an incredible understanding of game. Not just game, but the actual concepts.

Quit saying you don't know the relationship, or her motives. Quit trying to over complicate things. She said she had feelings for someone else, and that's it. Man up and quit being such a pussy. When I found out Kasabi fucked my girlfriend, yeah I was upset, but did I go out like a bitch? Hell no! I said, "Listen. You and Kasabi should start dating. There's no way I'm dating a whore that cheats on me. Bye."

Ever since then, I haven't looked back. Yeah she kept texting/calling me for awhile saying how it was a mistake. You know what I said? "I agree, it was". And I kept walking.