Well, we have talked on the phone for over an hour and had a lengthy first date (for a week night). I played it safe, asked her some questions, told her plenty of stories about myself and all that.... though she was making me do a TON of qualifying.

I'm talking fairly blunt questions about how I want to raise kids (to see if I might be in line with her), when I am getting my own house (in a few months), etc. She's almost out of my league, so it's really tough for me to turn the tables or demonstrate a whole lot of HV.

That's why I was hoping to neg her a bit since I don't have much to go on. Sigh...