I can only notice what i see..

I don't even have advice to offer about this because I've never had a 10 watching a movie at my house. I only offer advice on this board when I can speak from personal experience. Are you sure she's a 10? Like sure?

She's a 10. Believe me. She's perfect. So damn hot.

That's just the point. I have the feeling she is gaming me too. Like the cat-string theory, all the time.

Today i asked her if she wanted to join to the party (i'm going out actually every night, i'm on erasmus). I'll copy the messages here:

First one: "I don't know as yet what i'll do tonight. i text you later. kisses"

Second one: "I'm at place X. We (that is: she and her housemates - they're no danger) are going to concert X. You want to go with us? Or drink a beer? (did she meant me and her?)"


Third one, right after: "They have changed the dicision, we are already at the busstop to go to the concert, i'm sorry " (mind the smiley here..)


I texted back as i didn't really care "Ok, have fun, i'll go the party X, bye"

If anybody can offer me some more advice i'll be very greatful. I'm really afraid to be friend-zoned...

OK, situation is getting clearer:

Everytime SHE starts kino with me.

Then i do the same but she backs off.

Yep, she's gaming you. Classic push-pull (only when a chick's doing it it's called a cock-tease)

She's gaming you and it's working, you are falling for it hook line and sinker. The good news - since she's gaming you that means she likes you (otherwise she would just walk away)

The bad news - she's going to drive you nuts and that is her intent and it is working and working in her favor. She holds all the power in your "relationship" at this point.

You can try and game her back but she if she really is a ten she is going to be 100 times more skilled and more intuitive than you.

You can just play dumb and let her keep playing you and perhaps she will just push-pull you into bed. If she's not responding to your kinos or advances and backing off when you try to make move but puts on moves of her own when you are playing it cool, the just play it cool and see how far she will take it.

Maybe even try flirting with some other chicks and make yourself less available to her. If she calls, answer real quick and whisper into the phone and tell her you are busy and will call her right back and then make her wait for a day or two. If she wants to get together tell her you already have plans that night.

I get the feeling she is the PUA here and that's the way she likes it. If she likes to pursue, why not give her a little pursuit and a little challenge.

I can't. I've never been this far with a 10. I don't think anyone on here who hasn't either should offer advice. 10's are a whole different ball game. Going from a 9 to a 10 is a whole different can of worms than say going from a 7-8. If this girl is really a 10, taking advice from someone who's never gamed one before could be a critical mistake. Personally, I wanna see you pull this off. I know it would be the best day of my life and I would swim the english channel not to fuck it up. Just my 2 cents.

Yesterday she actually send me a message to meet up. I found that very positive so i'm not the only one sending a message..

So she is indeed gaming me. This was the feeling i had from the very beginning. So far my "tactic" has been to play it cool and don't really react too much on her semi-approaches..

Yesterday she holded her both hands under my clothes, wrapping my body, when waiting to cross the street. All people were looking at us.. Saying goodbye i hugged her (and 2 kisses), but she nearly reacted to the hug...

Complicated stuff.

Paul I just PMed you about something.

I find it my duty to let you guys know how this story "ended" (although its just the beginning of a new story).


Allright. She played even more harder to get the last days, up to the point she made me so sick that i just stopped every contact, i didn't react on her facebook messages, i didn't initiate anything, i just played it tough too. Obviously this was kind off hard, as you have that hard feeling to send a message, to contact her, whatever, but a girl (good friend) helped me a lot to convince me that is the right way, which it is.

Besides that, the same girl (call it a wing) posted some stuff on my facebook wall to make her jealous. Even op to the point she danced with me on a party again to make her jealous, which obviously worked very hard lol.

The HB10 couldn't stand it anymore (I WAS IN CHARGE again), and this afternoon she began to talk with me on SPAM and she started to tell and show her feelings. We had a clear conversation, without the game stuff, just telling we liked eachother.

This is the point we are now. I guess its going the right way. Now it is just a matter of time before we are "together" say, a relationship, which was from the beginning the stuff i wanted.

Lets hope its going this direction indeed. Just now she sended again a message to eat together.

Regards, and thanks for all the help offered here.