That's good advice, unfortunately I'm relatively new to the area and don't really have a circle of friends over here. There is no party or anything I can invite her to.

She asked me what I'm doing, I said I'm "hanging out with some friends" (really I'm watching TV). She said she's at dinner with her brother's wife and parents, and I said call me when you're done (thinking back I shouldn't have done this - I gave her control).

So I'm gonna give her a chance to call me back tonight (although it's getting late). If no answer I figure I'll text her in the morning for a "spontaneous" date.

What do you think?

@Unionjack The point wasn't being 'wussy' but being decisive and not giving her any room to wiggle on.


blurryz, don't stress about it too much man. It feels like your over analyzing the situation. It's really not that complicated though. If your after a girl for a LTR and
you've already hooked up with her.. then it's not about 'game' but being natural
and the way you normally are. What happens later in 2 weeks time when you
run out of ideas for what to do next? you're facade will be destroyed.


Best advice, drop all of this and just be yourself from here on with her.

I'd love to "drop everything and be myself" but unfortunately it doesn't work like that. She's playing hard to get.

Either that or I'm getting mixed signals - I asked her if she wanted to do something tonight (Saturday), she said she already has plans.

What now??

Do I try again later this week? Do I ask her "when is good for you?" Do I ignore her until she calls me?

@UnionJack do you have aim or something similar I can talk to you over?

Sure, I've just left you a message.

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