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Finesse, you talk about the sex as being important. I agree, and i think it is a good indicator of the state of the relationship (especially after the 1st year). What do you suggest to keep the vibe, passion and fire going there as i have been here myself before and just couldn't figure it out.
Variety.
Mix it up. Don't stick to doing the same things. Just build tension anywere, randomly. focus more on building the anticipation, rather than just having/doing sex. The energy and tension you build to add to the anticipation before will be what keeps it 'alive'.
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Finesse, one more thing. My ex-girlfriend and i had a good relationship in a lot of ways, but after a while she seemed to want to lock me down. When we met i was in a band and im guessing that passion for something else translated to attraction. However after a while this is what broke us up. She just HATED me having another passion in life. Tricky.
Perhaps you ended up spending more time on it, or other things fizzled. Perhaps she didn't feel enough passion from you for the relationship. Could be loads of reasons. Have you asked her what broke you up?
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