Something tells me it comes from your attitude; the way you present yourself even in a short post online reveals so much about your character.

1. You're insecure.
2. You don't know what you want.
3. You don't know why you want it.
4. You are too unsure.
5. You don't take action.

I'm not making this list to make you feel like shit about yourself; I'm making it to let you know that you need to take action and make a change. You need to wake the fuck up, because no one is going to do this for you.

Why you? Well, why anyone? Everyone who has problems asks that question at some point. Look, it isn't just you. It's almost everyone. You aren't alone in this boat.

But why you and not that guy who is actually getting laid? Because when he has a problem, he isn't going to fall to his knees and ask "Why me?". He is going to stand back, examine the obstacle, and find a way around, over, underneath, or through it.

Look, I know things are hard in the situation you're in, because I was in the exact same situation. Hell, I am still in that situation. But what are you going to do about it?

Examine your situation, and find your problems. Then tackle them one by one. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself and asking "Why me?" on the forum, ask specific questions to us so we can help you in that way. Questions like "How can I be more confident?", "How should I approach a girl?", "How can I use game to get more friends?". Even those questions are a little vague. When encountered with a problem, you have to stand back and examine the big picture, and measure out the possibilities and methods of fixing it.

As much as it may seem, you aren't in a hopeless situation. Stick with this endeavour, and you will find your way around the obstacles, one by one, until you find your goal.

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-Sharplin
My journal:
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...dude, your ringing up as a question mark in my eyes.

Not bad, but not good.
Like, I'm not sure what your problem is.

You don't seem angry, but you don't seem unsure of yourself. It's as...aw dude, I can't tell where you're coming from.

You're in the moment, but you're not moving forward. You're a contradiction.

...I apologize if this question comes out the wrong way, but are you mentally stable?

I have bipolar disorder.