Trust me I had it bad more than once, not long ago too, and think the girl is best friends with a close female cousin, imagine how hard that was? Trust me, you can do it. Your a man, your a PUA in the making, your the prize, forget about waste.

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yeah man that must have been tough!!

it was tough for me as well, because i dont really have any friends and the only one i trusted and shared everything with was my girlfriend. and we had this bond together it was really deep for me.
i always felt that she wanted to sleep with more men.. and she was always a little checking out the waters every oncein a while and at one point i just couldnt take it anymore and i was firing it all back at her in rage, telling her she looked like a slut and stuff. not long after she dumped me after she had enough control.
lol its so mean from her i mean, we were on a break and i was totally fine with it i said it was probably for the best and left with a smile on my face.
that same night she calls me crying she wanted everything to be back to normal
i was like yeah honey, totally caring, telling her i wanted everything to be normal as well again.
and i was happy, she was happy

the days after she goes partying, i start calling her like hey whatsup she is very distant and cold. she was going out with her slutty friends.
then the next day we were suppose to meet. and she goes like look, im not in love with you anymore looking me deep into the eyes to see if i would crack
i was like hey okay

she goes like hmm.. i thought you wouldnt take it this lightlty

she starts crying a little, im still totally cool with it.
then i leave

then that night it hits me and im like calling her asking her if she was really sure, after i had cried, she could hear it..

and lol all of a sudden she starts acting mean! like vicious!
Imagine, im hurt, i call my only and best friend for comfort

and she goes like: No! I don't want to have a relationship! At least not with you !!
in a totally cold hearted way!!

after like 3 weeks i call her again, she missed me she started cracking i think. i thought i would get her back. then i got a little needy again and she goes again:
Im much happier without you!
lol i was hurt and she goes saying things like that. i only treated her like gold, never did anything mean to her.

pff so thats why i was so hurt.

and now im happy cuz im going on a vacation in half an hour lal!

Peace :D

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Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Same spot.. Heading for recovery and awesomeness again. We have eachother in this community.

Let's get our freedom back and be free in all the ways that they are not!

If the conneection was as DEEP as you say then I'm sure she also felt connected to you, and if you do you...believe me. SHE WILL COME AROUND. don't text her no more. I'm going through this bullshit now with an Ex that wants my cock and maybe forever will.

now go spark a blunt and listen to 808s & Heartbreak

Yeah, best way, no contact! When you do you'll say something stupid, get feelings for her, or just act like a chump. Be strong and disciplined. It'll help you get over her quicker. Out of sight, out of mind. Take up a new hobby or something, that will keep your mind off her, or take up martial arts or go to the gym if you feel a angry about it, work out your frustrations in a productive manner. And meet new people/HBs. Getting back in field is such a great feeling after a situation like this, it reminds you how awesome you are

Glad I could help.

Look, you rly need to have a stronger social friendship base. klausmasterk alludes to the fact that you need more hobbies->I agree. You can never become so dependent on one individual that you are powerless if they are about to leave you. The desperation is clear when they leave you because they can sense that you are losing it all since you do not have anything else to fall back on.

You may think that you did not do anything bad to her, as if you were such a nice guy. I see it another way completely. By you not having other interdependent relationships (not dependent ones like the one you had with your girl), I am sure that you overwelmed her, and she knew she had the power. Its funny how people who have no base to fall back on (of other friends or girlfriends) show their NEED for that other person. It is rly unseductive. You may not notice it until you acheive that base, but I only tell you because this lack of relationships is as detrimental to relationships as when you are mean. It gives the other person the power to be evil towards you and you cant do anything.

Additionally, in any relationship, you must mix pleasure with pain so that the female values that pleasure after a small amount of pain. I read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. After that I noticed that I did this so much in relationships because I wanted the female to notice that I can please her but I can also hurt her. I do not advocate for you to hurt females because I think assh*le guys place too much pain in the equation. As long as you give her more pleasure than pain, you will be considered a great guy. Think about it, you value your health when you recover from being sick; likewise you value being happy when you were sad. It is in our nature to be like that, to value the good once you dealt with bad. Think about this (for im into philosophy), would you know what is happiness and good in a world where sadness and evil did not exist. . .

Truly, oneitis blinds us of our real potential. It is a beast that we try to conquer, yet is insurmountable unless you take away that oneitis problem by not caring--much better it is when you have other females in your life because, then and only then, there is no one female that can control or frastrate you.