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Thought you might like a girls perspective.... So yeah I guess it's all about the comfort - like all the guys have been saying!
Thanks, Girlfriendofapua. It's definitely helpful to get a girl's take on this, particularly since you've had experiences at both ends of the positive-negative spectrum.
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so the few times she let me try couldnt get my penis to penetrate, what are some tips and yes i tried lube
Jish made a good point; try to make sure she's super-relaxed and turned on. Also, maybe you need to do more preliminary work before you attempt to penetrate. Try to use your finger(s) more, or a tapered dildo -- or even something like a carrot -- so that her muscles relax and her hole opens.