Urgent help needed,
Current situation is I am talking with a girl who sees me as a potential boyfriend but has been telling herself that for the next year she does not want anything more than friends with any guy. Quote from her tonight "I was so set on not having a boyfriend and just focusing on school after my ex and then you fucking happened"
She really likes me and I have never been a AFC to this girl but I do see myself slowing down with being able to make advances through her shit test and walls.

I need advice on how I can make her choose me over not having a boyfriend.
I am not even looking up to setup a LTR but how I can escalate more connection and more intimate relations like a possible FB.

Last week her best friend of 7 years confessed he loves her and she was questioning who she likes, me or him and took time to think about it and says that my connection is so much more then with him and that she could not date him and that I was in her mind during all of that mess.

A big part of her is not wanting to have to risk the breakup and having things be awkward like all of her ex's as she is programmed.

Usually I would be on to the next one but this girl has really taken over my mind.
How can I take it sexual and not friend zone?

hey doc, are there any techniques other than the newbie game to actually get yourself over AA. to put it in other words, can u play it anywhere like maybe when a woman is just passing you by in the street?
the thing that is poisoning my mind is what their reaction will be. i know i should jsut do it and it wont be as bad as i think but it's so bad. i suffer from anxiety anyways so its porbs worse than normal the way i feel about stuff.
any tips on to how to gain a boost and get myself out there.?

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