I'm with jezzebel at the moment, would I want just sex with her... No.

I want the whole package, to be with her because I see her as more than that, she is my "partner in crime"; to just have sex with her, would probably leave me feeling worse off than nothing at all.

She is interested in Brah as a whole entity, not just his sex or attractiveness, she wants HIM as a person, she wants Brah and everything with it, not just "Brahs knob"; she's not sleeping with brah becuase she doesn't just want sex from him, she wants him.

1. You would want this. You would want that. You would feel this. You would feel that. This is good . . . you should ALWAYS try to act in ways that is congruent with who YOU are. You are not Brah. Brah is acting in ways that is congruent with who he is and thus far, he hasn't lied to himself nor has he lied to the girl.

2. And you have NO idea what the girl wants. Perhaps she just doesn't want to seem like a slut. Perhaps she has issues with abandonment. Who knows?

Aside from that, Brah, you should consider meditating on your tendencies to figure out the source of your own patterns. Your life is your journey to take.

Without going into the details of my life, I've got my own very healthy personal reasons for not wanting this right now.

As to the people criticizing me for running game on this girl, why are you even on these forums? No girl runs up to you and opens up her legs and fucks you without you doing anything. You've got to run game. That's what these forums and being a seducer is all about. It's baffeling that you find it odd that I'd try to get in this girl's pants. That's the entire point of these forums.

As to the girl, next time she calls I'm just going to tell her that I won't see her anymore unless she can see me without getting emotionally attached. I'll freeze her out, and put the onus on her as if it's her fault because she is the one that is getting emotionally attached and that is wrong....and then she'll realize that she can either see me casually, or not see me at all. It will be 100% up to her. Maybe I'll never see her again - but that's a better situation for me than being monogamous.

The difference between PUA and AFC wasn't really what got you into trouble. Being honest as you should have done regardless of your pick up knowledge, although the greater your knowledge the more onus there is on you to be more honest seeing as you could more easily gain another source of satisfaction without screwing over someone emotionally for what is at best a 48hour relief.


And yes it's your choice if you don't wish to be monogamous and there's no criticism in making it or not neither should there be for gaming her initially, you didn't know after all.

People are criticising you for your lack of regard for "leaving them better than you found them" or at the very least leaving them the same as you found them.

I agree with your choice, you've been honest with her as you should if she can't handle that then such is life and there'll be plenty more who can i'm sure.

I hate to agree with the other guys on this post, but I do. I think after you bang her you will have her eating out of your hand. She will do everything in her power to tame you, and you will fight it. I have never seen a healthy relationship start this way, although, I am no expert.

Because your horney doesn't give you the right to use girls for your own desires. You are doing the right thing by NOT liying to her. Although, I wouldn't even sex her at all unless you are prepared to deal with the emotional baggage that is going to come a long with it. You may have a sense of pure power over her after sex, but you are just using her to make yourself feel better. You don't need sex from her. You need her to give into you, so you can feel better about the man you are. Your a user.

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