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not sure i like that kasabi, if the guy happens to have skills, you just lost your girl
Sure . . . I suppose that there's a small chance that those two hit it off. And I admit, I've only done this a handful of times. (With a different twist every time) In all cases, both the guy and the girl were good looking but I've never experienced a time when the two hit it off. And 5 out of 5 isn't exactly a good sample size for experimentation but I think I have a good idea why this routines has always worked favorably for me:
1. You're the care free fun guy. You're already demonstrating to the girl that you're not focusing on her, trapping her, or have any crazy, sleazy motives. Just try this if the opportunity presents itself . . . let me tell you.... everybody laughs. It's hilarious.
2. You're demonstrating your social skills. You've just opened her. You've just opened a "strange guy"
for her. Surely she knows if she sticks with him too long, you're going to go pick up another hottie in the room. And you should. As soon as you leave the "two love birds" alone, you should go open up another set. Believe me, she's watching. Not sure what it is but women can't stand being just tossed off . . .
3. First, you introduced her to him making her sound like a total dork, "She's been eyeballing you . . . she's got a crush on your . . . etc . . ." And now, she's looking around the room for you. Most guys really get bored of this.
Just give it a shot. It's hilarious . . . and if she's got friends with her . . . it's even better.