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Who cares?
Who the best 'pua' is has no bearing on you or I.
The trouble is, you get these guys who come from a place of scarcity who
manage to find something inside themselves that leads them on a path to abundance.
Then they think they are able to teach others to do the same so they become charlatans.
But the truth is, you can't teach the unteachable (Adam Lyons and Gambler are classic examples of these kind of people).
Unless you can find something inside yourself and experience positive feedback and
evidence that you are able to improve in this area, no 'pua' is going to be able to help you.
This is why bootcamps and such are scams.
While I think your right on a level, I think your very wrong on another. Your right, you can't teach people to be good at pick-up; they have to want it bad enough to grow some balls, try some things, keep at it, improve their life styles, and ultimately do the work for themselves. However, you can run drills with people, encourage them to live a happier and healthier lives, give them tips on how to deal with certain situations, and give in-field analysis on their sets. Before I knew what sarging was, I would go out with my friends, with the intentions of getting drunk and the hope of getting laid. Now, drinking is becoming less of a part of going out to a bar (funny isn't it?), and pick up has definitely given my outings new purposes. It is now about expanding my social circle, pushing the limits and seeing just what you can get away with, and ultimately being more successful with women. Now I didn't attend a boot camp per say, but I do go out regularly with people that have/do/intend to run boot camps. And there are some things that I would have never thought to add to/remove from my game. Maybe a boot camp is right for nextday if there isn't a local lair near by, maybe it will be the kick in his ass he needs to improve his life style!
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