This a turn on or turn off for women?



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 4:00 am 
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I must admit that I didnt read through all the replies so if someone has already mentioned this I apologize...

It all depends what you want from the woman, when it comes to just sex: all women wants somewhere in the back of their head to have sex with the bad boy.
Women are attracted to bad boys. If you have a player reputation more and more girls will wonder what is so good about and will sooner or later fall for your bad boy attitude and have sex with you!

However when it comes to relationships it is a little harder and gets more complicated..

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I just want to add to this....i have recently had 2 fairly tough closes purely because of my player rep. They love it and I know its attractive and all...however they take a more conservative approach as no girl wants to be 'one of the rest', they want to be special. if you can show them that they, out of all the girls you 'play', are different from the rest...youre golden. however if you convey that they are simply one of the rest (which is what girls think by default if youre a player)....this means big time resistance. so having a player rep can sometimes require a little more tact than simply conveying that you are a player in order to get laid.


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Its not about the numbers, its what you do.
Girls actually don't want to hear the numbers, they aren't impressed by statistics.

"It's not the size, it's what you do with it" same goes for statistics.
Do you really think it will turn a chick on when she hears you slept with ($insert-number-here) girls. My experience shows that they don't want that information.

So to anwser the question shortly: I guess its a turn off rather then a turn on.

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To a point its not about the numbers..but it does make a difference. eg. if a girl found out that you've only slept with 1 or 2 girls....no it may not be a problem for her but it would show lack of experience with a variety of women. to them it could look like only 2 women have ever 'wanted' to sleep with you, rather than many. doesnt make you look like much of a sexual being.

i guess as someone said earlier it depends on the girl, but it also depends on the image/persona that you portray. i have had a few girls saying to me 'wow you must have had a lot of sex before.'....i was surprised when i first heard this and didnt know what to make of it, but i realized they mos times implying that they would expect a lot of girls to want to sleep with me...and this is clearly a good thing. i have simply replied 'i guess ive had my fair share' and smiled back. or i just tell them im a virgin and to not even THINK about corrupting me....said jokingly of course.


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