870 is dead on.

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@ Marc: You're not helping matters any.... take my advice from earlier about growing up.

@ The couple others: *sighs* You dont get it. I'm just confused about what I want to do at the moment... I CAN talk to girls just fine but anytime I get somewhere with a girl something goes wrong...I want a serious relationship (none of that ONS shit) but theres ALWAYS a fucking glitch when it comes to someone that I'm interested in or get in a relationship with.

Then perhaps it would be more useful for you to ELABORATE on what that glitch is or what happens versus complaining about it and then saying we don't understand.

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I'm not trying to blow you guys off. I know you ALL mean well...
BECAUSE the girl I'm with is with another guy (whos in jail) whom I'm sharing with one of my friends...........then again I cant get any better....

This doesn't sound like the way a man talks about a woman he wants to be his girlfriend. I've never heard any of my friends fall in love with a girl and say, "Hell, it's not like I could do any better anyway." This makes me think that you're settling for her because getting her was "easy" rather than going after who or whatever it is you really want.

Also, I should mention that there's a certain Zen quality to getting a girlfriend rather than just a fuckbuddy or one-night stand, which you seem to disdain. If you go around looking, searching, hoping for a girlfriend, it opens the door to projecting girlfriend-esque qualities onto women who don't actually match up to what you really desire (which of course leads to miserable relationships, which eventually end and lead guys to this forum crying, "I just don't know why it didn't work out!")

At the opposite end of the spectrum, if you just relax and go where the flow of life takes you while taking an objective, careful analysis of each potential girlfriend--a process which takes time and patience-- you will eventually run across the girl you are looking for. If you talk to enough women, it's statistically impossible for this NOT to happen eventually, but as I have made a point of mentioning about 30 times in this post, it takes TIME and PATIENCE.

In the mean time, why not just enjoy life and work on becoming the man she will want?

Your boy,
870

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Truthfully, reading that makes a lot of sense now
Actually she chose my friend over me (yet I think she still likes me).... Oh well, there are more girls out there and now probably a good time to start talking to others. Thanx ^_^

In the mean time, why not just enjoy life and work on becoming the man she will want?