Yeah, and some guys are learning the direct approach, maintaining a positive frame, and demonstrating physical interest in a girl. If you're male every approach will have some success because women want to meet worthwhile men. Women want to be loved and fucked. If you can't give them the package, then it's natural for them to lose interest, just like we inevitably lose interest. Also, haven't you ever seen a single chick flick or read a romance novel? That shit has love and fucking in equal amounts.

Ding ding ding ding! We have a winner!

Can you share your feelings with a girl? Yes.

Do girls want to be loved? Yes, of course they do! To think otherwise is weird community bullshit that has no basis in actual science or reality.

Stop with all that crazy community "fuck bitches" mentality. It's unhealthy. That said, I agree with Fu$$ in much of what he said... he is right. Much of the pick up process is about Full Circle. In order to get good you have to distance yourself a little bit. But after you know what you are doing you can return to the whole romantic side of things if you so choose.

Your problem is that you think that revealing your feelings will somehow cause attraction. It doesn't. Focus on other girls.


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But you cannot really be sure even after she has told you she loves you. Some girls will tell you that in the heat of the moment and/or just to keep you around... It does not necessarily guarantee anything...

I see where you guys are coming from but . . . we are still dealing with "chicks" right? Haven't you ever seen these species out in the wild (the shopping mall) engaging in their daily routines?

"Oh . . . I love this blouse! . . .No, . . No I don't. I love this other one better. No . . .I like this one. Well, I'll do this one for Sue's party and then, this purple one for Jim's birthday but wait a minute! Ohhhhh My Gooood! What's this red piece!?!?! This is the one for me for sure . . ." This is why they(psychologists figured this out) place those leather seats and a rack of SI magazines for guys to read right next to those "female clothing" areas. The pros know that the best way for a guy to reply to these schizophrenic emotional shows are to continue engaging in manly things (stare at bikinis and sports) and reply, "Yes honey. You're right honey. Good job honey . . . etc . . "

F trying to decipher what ever they say and really . . . don't even bother trying to read their minds. A man doesn't wait for a girl to do a song and dance or for her to give out 3 and a half IOI's or some verbal cues. A man doesn't calculate some dialogue and think . . "After the 7th date and after she gives me a go ahead with her telling me she loves me . . . then I will spill my guts to her because boy, that would really make me feel swell and I bet she will really love me more after that . . ."

No . . . a man sees a girl that strikes his fancy and DOES WHAT COMES NATURALLY.

Telling a girl he just met and has never fucked that he loves her and he wants to be with her for ever is NOT NATURAL. (This is some bullshit taught to us by years of goofy lecturing adults and Walt Disney movies)

Not sure about you guys but I see a girl who strikes my fancy and I want to engage her in conversation. I want to chat with her. I want to laugh with her. I want to touch her. I want to kiss her. I want to do fun things with her. I want to fuck her. And I want to feel my attraction for her grow as we share more time together.

Do what you REALLY want to do. You can't go wrong.