The problem is you're delusional. You don't seriously think you took any "one steps" forward do you? Dude, you've been running a marathon the wrong way.

The guy(s) who fuck her are PUAS. Based on everything you wrote, YOU'RE the AFC. The good news is that "AFC" isn't an identity but can be just a simple set of actions. You can transform yourself this very moment but you won't be able to do this if you keep thinking that you've done anything right. (I really don't think you have) And you definitely won't be able to transform yourself if you keep BLAMING her (Her beauty, awkward behavior, etc . . .)

Stop calling her. Stop taking her calls. Don't collect your 200 hundred dollars and don't pass go. Based on what you wrote so far, I don't think there is anything within your skill set that will get her sucking your cock any time soon. Take the time to read up more and practice on 100's of other girls.

Also . . . try to teach yourself to run your life as you see fit. You like a girl and you want to fuck her. So the topic of conversation should ALWAYS lead your dick at least one step closer to her pussy. If a girl starts going off on some tangent, you cut her the fuck off and get back on topic or you tell her you're busy. How the hell do you find the time to play the part of a chick in some hair salon, chatting about her relationship(s) and making her laugh with your stand-up act? You are seriously cock blocking yourself.