| Club game is something I've perfected in a short amount of time.
The basic thing you have to know is that it's not about talking, negs, etc.
It's all about primitive body language and sexual lust. People are like animals on the dance floor and trying to talk to people there is just plain silly.
Just smile allot and have good body language and...sex appeal Very Happy
There are allot of different approaches I've made at club game but the most succesful, from best to worst are as follows:
1- sex appeal.
Just be hot, that's all you gotta do. Workout, get a nice style and LOOK APPROACHABLE (smile allot, look like you are having fun) and just stand at the right places on the dancefloor (where the girls are lol).
Girls approaching you:
Usually after awhile of just being pretty girls will come up to me with the most idiotic approaches (girls have weak game really, they depend on their physical appearance) asking all kinds of stupid questions.
The trick here is to not to jump on them right away out of excitement but just stay cool, give a politically correct answer and then just kinda make them leave by telling them you'll dance or talk to them later.
You have just shown them that you are not needy at all.
Approaching girls:
If you just keep smiling and looking at girls you'll notice that allot of them are looking back at you and smiling and sometimes getting closer etc.
You can then easily approach them with whatever you want, but keep the lines EXTREMELY short and simple or just start dancing with them.
Usually you will notice they like you cuz they will grab hold of you an awfull lot when talking to you and will lean in very close etc. You can easily apply some light kino by putting your arm on their shoulders or hips when talking to them etc.
The same as above, leave after a short while.
After a few minutes of leaving them alone (or doing the same with different girls) you come back to your target when the right song or whatever comes up and you can start talking or dancing a bit more...this time for like 2-3 songs before you leave her again.
2- The "Dancer"
This approach is pretty simply once you know how to dance...it comes down to being a Patrick Swayze on the dancefloor and be an attention whore Very Happy.
Dancing on the Podium and having everybody take a good look at who you are etc is usually bound to have a few girls having the guts to approach you and either compliment you on your skills on want to dance with you.
Also you have to keep an eye open for girls who are eye-fucking you all the time (like in the sex appeal approach) so you can approach them later.
If you have a good reputation as a dancer that night you can dance with almost any girl.
Be aware though, that some girls just like you bcuz of the dance skills, so they might not particularly be interested in YOU. With dances like Salsa this can very often be the case. Allot of girls just like to dance and couldn't care less with who they dance, as long as they can dance.
3- The "crew/VIP" approach.
This one requires only one thing = money.
If you go to a club with a few people, order bottles and just hang around in the VIP area feeling to good to mix with the ordinary plebs, you are bound to have some girls getting all over you.
But make sure its obvious that YOU are the TOP DOG of the crew.
This is something I don't do much cuz you spend allot of money but it works every time. You can occasionaly walk trough the crowd and invite some girls over to the VIP area etc etc.
4 - The pickup artist approach.
This is the one we all know about....people walking around the crowd asking girls stupid questions and making stupid comments and trying to CONVINCE girls to like them (the other approaches are you usually you acting on them eye fucking you etc) by throwing all kinds of tricks at them.
This one has the highest rejection rate and a few possible number closes etc.
But it's not really my type...I used to do it but my new theory is that I shouldnt convince girls to like me...
See it like this...you have 2 types of merchants;
The ones that try to convince you to buy their product and will go very far with this...giving you discounts, money back guarantee etc.
They will get allot of hesitant costumers and allot of them will just walk away.
Then you have people selling products like a new Xbox where people will stand in line at 6 in the morning to get it before it's sold out....now the COSTUMER is interested and will go far to get the product and convince the merchant they deserve the product.
The last one is more like my style.
number close:
It's a club, you don't number close before you kiss close Very Happy and preferably, you DON'T number close...You wanna know why? Cuz you might dig eachother in the club, but outside in daily life chances are that the two of you have nothing in common....you were just attracted to eachothers sex appeal thats it...If you take them out for a walk in the park and try to have a conversation it often turns out to be very awkward.
So for the kiss close; have lots of heavy kino and grinding (or static grinding, which looks like grinding but you dont move, you just stay in a 'hugging' position face to face for a abnormal long time lol). If you are in this position it's very easy to start making out and it's not uncommon for girls to make the first move here either..since your lips are only about an inch apart lol.
Try to take keep your kiss closes hidden cuz if you want to get the max out of your night (get as much girls, future targets etc) you should try to keep that "he's already taken" imago hidden. So preferably make out in places where you're targets aren't around.
For the Fuck Closes you just steer the direction into : "how are you going home? where are you sleeping?" etc
which usually leads to detailed explanations about their where abouts and you just have to find a playful way to incorporate yourself into her "homecoming" if you know what I mean.
A very stupid example I can give that will work if it's hot enough "I bet you don't even have a tv at home!" and lead the conversation there to ending where it's obvious that you are going home with her etc.
Oh yeah, and for the number close, just set up a future appointment and make her aware of your plans for the weekend and tell her she has to call you tomorrow to check what you are doing and then kind off make suggestions that you are leaving (turning your shoulders away).
if she likes you enough, she WILL stop you in desperation and be like : "HEy! I dont have your number!"
If not, just make them take your number.
I find it much better to give girls my number then to take numbers, cuz it shows interest on their part too.
some small tips:
- Get the music they play at your local clubs...and listen to it in your spare time, this way you will know all the breaks etc and the vibe of that song. So you can improve your dancing skills.
- Try to go out with female friends
- Try to go out with guys who have game or sex appeal
- Dont buy women drinks, make them buy drinks for you Very Happy
- If women offer to buy you drinks, stay in the same price range as their drinks, dont abuse.
Hope this helps, if you have any more questions just let me know.
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