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 Post subject: Re: Small Update
PostPosted: Fri Apr 24, 2009 8:51 pm 
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You guys are gonna think this is weak but hey at this point ill take any sign of life as a good thing.. So I put up an Away msg on AOL- "RIP Heroes never die- youll never be forgotten." Regardiing my grandpa who passed away 5 years ago that day. anyway I get an instant msg from the girl at 330 AM saying "hey is everything alright what happened?" I briefly explain what the away msg meant and she responds by saying "ok I just wanted to make sure your ok." I then tell her i had to go to bed and i sign off. (mind you she hasnt imed me first in about 2 months)To me this shows that she somehwat still gives a fuck about me (right?) anyway im going to stick to everyones advice and call her next week keeping it brief with some neging and non AFC talk..
its hard to say, back in my AFC days it was not uncommon to see messages that where emotional. Girls that where known would say something about it, but later it was discovered that many of them simply seen me as a friend.

make sure you do not come off as a needy guy thats not in control of his emotions. If it appears this way, girls may worry about you out of sympathy, not compassion.

Never to say this is the case in this situation. Her desire to message you to check up, may be out of compassion, however seeing that its been 2 months since she has initiated a conversation the jury is still out.

the fact that, and this is an assumption on my part, you have initiated every single dialog between the two of you. you may, and with no certainty, saying again may have been so far slammed into the needy friend zone that only time away and a drastic reappearance will change that. Allowing time to erase all those negative ideas of you, and coming back more confident so the positive ideas take over.

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