Herr Wolfe, this one's easy. No one should wait around for that long for a single girl, unless that's what he wants. Now, no bullshit, it might mean that the relationship stalls out or she cheats on him or any number of unpleasant consequences. In any case, it sounds like the OP doesn't want it that way, so this advice is inapplicable in this instance.

As always: self-determination > game. Understand the consequences of your actions, of course. In other words, if a girl friend-zones you because you FAIL to escalate, shame on you; but if a girl friend-zones you because you CHOSE not to escalate, acknowledge that as the consequences of your actions and choose either to accept it or to modify your actions in the future. (Just don't whine about it.)

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Some vices miss what is right because they are deficient, others because they are excessive, in feelings or in actions, while virtue finds and chooses the mean.
Aristotle, Ethica Nichomachea

she's definitely up for it.. just go for it... She wouldn't stay at yours if she wouldn't want it... so go asap.


Actually depends how old you are... but if you are above 16, you better make it happen or you might fuck up

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Hut

im sorry, maybe having a legit girlfriend for once is out of the question. let me explain myself.

you see, if i go and have sex with a girl on the first date, i have no incentive to carry on the relationship. ive seen and done everything, and it takes away the thrill of the game (in a relationship). so thats why i waited so long in this one, and it worked out perfectly. say its shitty advice, i dont care. but if he really wants to keep with this girl, he needs to prove to her that he doesnt want sex after just three weeks.

besides, im 18, not 14. and nah, neither of us are overly religious.