I dont know man.. You sounded pretty AFC there

My friend i think you should think about what you really want and read what Gunwitch has to say about relationships..
Everyone in here has been where you are now and even if they haven't they will one day. I trust it is you first time you feel like this and don't know how to react. Enjoy it and learn from it.
Ask yourself...Would you be happy if you trick this girl into coming back to you?Would you think it would last? Would you be nonneedy or any different than last time?
I am sure you still want her back..Well it depends..Are you a pua?Then show her you game.Avoid her and when the time comes do your tricks.(which wont work that well because of your current state of mind). Act cool..well even better BE COOL..Fuck with her mind..MAke her want and dont give it to her..Let her think that you are doing her a favor talking to her, let her think that you are doing her a favor having sex with her.Not simple but true.
Get your shit together and become alpha.
You will do the mistake getting back together with her , but perhaps then you will learn.
Even if it is meant to be(yeah i believe in that) it will happen without you trying.
Be well

Well,after this few day of cooling down; i feel you all are correct. My friends are correct. I shouldn't give a damn about whether i will be with her a not. I should be myself. I should enjoy myself and looking forward instead of thinking how to get her back. I am myself. i just choose to be with her but doesn't mean i couldn't live without her or other girls i should be confident,positive,cheering,happy again. i should be myself back. You all are correct. THX guys...!! i appreciate for your comment. i have wake up but i wish to ask how come my heart still will feel bit sour and some kind of feeling like missing her. Is this normal? Will it fade? What should i do?

If you want to get back - which you shouldnt - I would:

-ignore her competely, show her that you have moved on with your life
- show her that you have other beautiful women in your life
- neg her if she does talk to you

Good luck

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personally, because you said that you don't want to be friends, I don't think that you're gonna get back together with her, at least not anytime soon, sorry.

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