i think you can see the patternt here, u decided how much you wnat to drink, if you rout on a nite with the lads then get wasted any sargin gbasically goes out the window..
if your out with th reason to sarge then limit urself, i find a few pints is good, hell you could jus buy coke an if any1 asks what ur drinkin its vodka coke, and they cant drink it becoz
"you dnt know where there mouths being?"

its simple man,
drinkin is not hte only way forward, sargin can be alot of fun without havin to get wasted too.
-peace-

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera

Well, as the other lads have said, drinking can affect your ability to judge certain situations. I personally am currently working on my game and am making a point to only drink when I have been bought a drink. One night on the town I had some friends continously buy me drinks, but then all that happened was that I felt obliged to buy them a drink.

I like the fact that many of you don't drink. It's heaps of fun getting excited and nervous. Once you get used to being nervous you end up having a much better time. It's like a whole new level. So guys, if you have been sarging while drinking and you have been used to doing it for a while. Go dry for a while and you'll notice it actually to be quite a challenge.

It's very easy to just point out the fact:
"Drinking doesn't solve your problems, it just makes them easier to deal with. So in the end, you don't end up learning or growing as much as you could".

"Drinking has a lot more calories than you'd expect. It also causes brain damage."
Then add
"Well, it is reversible brain damage."

In clubs I was a big fan of the whole drug scene, it has taken me some time to get out of that shell, after being sucked into it.

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“You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her”

i think i wud say that zero is right abt:

But this question is in the newbie forum, if you are a newbie then let me tell you this...
DRINK!!!! DRINK!!!! DRINK!!!!
Drink. Drink some more, drink some more, drink away,
it will loosen you up and relieve social anxiety.

and i wud say that when ur drunk u kind of lose the fear of the approach
becoz the alocohol doesnt let u think abt it, and then it'll help u out in getting rid of the "social anxiety" wen ur sober.
but just rmbr, not to make it a habit and only use it as a beginners tool.
anyways, gud luck man

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"Give her the Gift of missing YOU"

-David DeAngelo

Since the other night I have made some new rules for myself regarding drinking.
I have realised that if I go into a set with the intention of hustling drinks out of them, I have about twice the confidence because my goal is not closing it is getting a free drink. And it shows in my sarges because the girls believe that I am just some prick (albeit loveable and sexy) who wants to extort them. If it goes well I get a free drink and therefore am rewarded for my troubles. Also saves money. No more drinks buying.
I hustled myself 5 drinks the other night, spent $3 all night!

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- Giacomo
xx

wow dude! giacomo seriously has som gr8 advice 4 u. and i'd seriously
say, that u shud REALLY try it out.....i mean wat better cud any1 possibly
think of, rather than that?

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"Give her the Gift of missing YOU"

-David DeAngelo

yeah ok lets all just go out and get wasted so we can approach women and look like drunken fools when we actually get to talking with them

limit yourself(like others have said 1-3 is fine) ive field tested drunk and not drunk........try it for yourself grow some balls and walk up to a woman without your liquid crutch i promise its better in the long run plus the sex is always better when you can remember it

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The sky's the limit

I dont think it is a good idea to drink if your surious about sarging that night. I realised this when i messed up pick up's in the past. But thats not say dont drink at all, just have 2 or 3, the key is to NOT GET DRUNK! drink coke instead. New years eve i had it going perfect with this HB 8.5 but i was so damn pissed i forgot to get her number and did'nt see afterwards. If your sober you have advancted (cant spell) because your thinking more straight. Being drunk aint attractive and gets you into shit.

you shouldent really be bothered about it but if you are just get 1 or 2 pints i prefer to have 1 or 2 the trick is not to get drunk thats when you get seriosly slow thinking lol

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You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do.

oh i forgot to mention if you drink a glass of wine every day ure liver gets stronger and you can drink more without getting drunk

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You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do.

whoa now....why would i want to waste more money on alcohol hahaha id rather be a cheap drunk anyways haha

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The sky's the limit

If anyone else is Irish youll know exactly how hard it is to go out without drinking!

Out of my mates Id drink the least often and I always get responses like this:

mate " alright slight whats up?"

me " not much yourself?"

mate " nothing really...you not drinking?"

me " nah"

mate " what the fuck is wrong ? are you alright?"

The irony of it! Ive actually had a mate get visibly angry because i wasnt destroying myself like he was. I think he just need validation of his actions!

No joke this happens regularly!!!

Seems like i'm going out tonight, and i'm going to be drinking a lot less than i usually do due to money restraints. Seems i'll have the avantage tonight on all the other AFC's destined to drink theirselves into thinking they're having a good time.

I can't wait.

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Smoke me a kipper, I'll be back for breakfast!

if you are at a bar/club just ask the bartender for a glass of coke or water with a lime in it. then it will look like you are either drinking liqour and coke or liqour and tonic. the water and lime version is more convincing

if u are at a house party, that wont work lol

i can go out have a fair drink and still be on top of it,
alcohol effects people in diffrent ways but the end of the matter is, your not going to pull if you a stagering, sluring wreck
moderation is the key

get a bottle of vodka, empty it, fill it with water. Get up in front of everyone, drink it all while they watch, yell out 'i am the king' smash the bottle then your fine for the rest of the night. problem solved.

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!