You don't need to verbally justify a socially acceptable "goodbye" kiss on the cheek. offer your hand like you're going to shake. She gives you her hand. Now you just pull her in and you plant one one her cheek and go, "Hey, "I'll see you on _______." Stare at her eyes . . . smile, then just walk away.

When you go to the restaurant . . . (if you do this), avoid the "group clown" thing. Meaning . . . don't tell your buddies you're into this girl and have them act up like 7th graders in the cafeteria. Be careful about teasing her in front of your buddies. Avoid anything too negative that could come off a bunch of kids picking on the "unpopular" kid . . .

Actually . . . I think this is one of those situations where you CAN put a girl on the pedestal a bit. If she gets showered with attention and she sees you as the catalyst for that attention, this could be a good thing.

Hey, I like your idea about reaching out my hand as if giving a handshake then pulling her in for a smooth kiss to her cheek then just walking away.

Im going with your advice Kasabi. I'll jump in the fire and see if I can get through without a burn. However, when Im at her work(restaurant), should I be giving her a rewarding attention or a push/pull kind of attention? I never actually tried any moves like this before in my life, but sure enough I'll experiement it out.

"I have faith and believe in the way of the PUA."

I'm confused, why are you going to see her at her restaurant instead of asking her out on a date??????????? (and mate if anything your past attraction your in comfort now)

For a girl to have me come into her work thats a big deal, thats like saying im all that and i know it, i want you and i know i can have you so im just doing the "before i date you" thing". Balls man.. are you sure your on the level? are you sure she is at that level?

And if anything it feels to me like your indicating a little too much interest, she seems to like you, but your taking too long and something is really off! maybe shes making you wait, or maybe your not running your game smooth, again its hard to tell on this. Personally Id never go and visit a girl, she has to visit me, her work is personal. Id ask her out, pull her away from it, get her head away, thats the whole point about the adventure and the bag carrying sms.. Do you regularly see this girl at work? or what did she openly invite you and wanted to see you? Dude do me a favour and go sarge several other women before you go to her work and get numbers! If anything id like you to walk in her work as if you own the place so you can get something out of it or if it blows up you won't care at all.
No, make your plan to eat dinner and have fun first.

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