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Um, yeah. Keep telling yourself that I cannot get her into me. I won't be stealing her. She'll come of her own free will.

Of course that dialog is not the only tool I will use to get her. That is just enough to get her thinking that she deserves more than a BF that is afraid of commitment. I then start building attraction by being the kind of guy she is attracted to, which may be a clone of you, sans commitment fear. (I guess I need to point out that I would not purposefully sarge your girl just because I can, to shut you down. I don't know who you are, and having said that, she could easily be one of the many women I meet, and if she is the world's most incredible woman, you can bet I will sarge her if I meet her.)

And, I am far from a douche. I am not insulted by your comment because it does not apply to me. I love my fellow humans. I would never treat you harshly, and would not get her just to get one on you. If I did it, I'd do it simply because I am the best for her, and I decide I want her to have the best.

Having said that, my skills are not that strong, and if I can't get her, for whatever reason, there is a guy out there who can. He may not be as selfless in his actions as I am, and may simply use his skills to bed her.
Many guys make a major mistake in thinking that once they get the girl, they can stop doing what it took to get the girl. You already know what it takes to get this particular girl. You have a headstart on the rest of us.

If you stop doing what attracted her to you, someone will do it, and she'll switch her attraction from you to them.

You need to keep being a Pick Up Artist, but she needs to be your only canvas if you are in a long term relationship. Everything you learn about Pick Up, you only focus on doing to her...the tricks, the lines, the escalations, the peacocking...all for her.
I am not telling you this to make you scared. I am telling you so that you can make a decision about this girl.

That decision needs to be, either commit to a loving relationship that should last a lifetime, or don't commit at all. Until you put a ring on her finger and a date for marriage, too many guys will think she is open for chasing. One of those guys is going to have his game together and get her.

If you keep fooling yourself that she is going to be faithful, but you won't commit, you'll only end up being broken hearted. I don't want you to get a broken heart. I want you to be happy with the most wonderful woman in the world.

I am not saying that me personally would take her. I am saying some guy will if she meets the right guy. That right guy is a PUA who has the skills needed to get her, and the determination to get through her objections including "I have a boyfriend".

I also said that I won't steal her. She'll go to the PUA because he built the attraction.

I saw a PUA student bed a woman who was in a long and strong relationship because she was a poli-sci student at a university and he works for a high ranking statesman. Unfortunately, he has no scrouples and will bed anything with a vagina. It destroyed the woman's relationship with the man, and the man was nearly destroyed until he joined Project DC.

I am only saying that you will not have any protection against a PUA who has the right game for the woman in question. The only protection is to commit to her, or be a better PUA than the competition.

I am also saying that if me, as a student of PUA Do with what I like to think of as a high character has no problem destroying a boyfriend who does not commit, PUAs with better skills and less character are definately going for it. Some guys who study PUA will justify sarging married women by saying, "If she was getting what she needed at home, she wouldn't need me."

I know of one highly skilled PUA who slept with a married woman on the floor, when the husband was passed out on the couch above them. Sure he felt bad because it was his best friend. ANd, I am only saying that to say that more than a ring, you need to sarge her for the rest of your relationship or someone will. A ring will keep away many PUAs but not all.