I know you really like this girl, so I'm not gonna tell you to just go find another girl who will give you what you want. However, ask yourself something - do you like her just because she's hot or is there a genuine connection and you make each other feel good? Give this a minute, I want you to actually sit and think about that.

Sex is a big deal when it comes to a girls first time and she won't be ready until she is completely at ease with you and is certain she can trust you. Some might call this feeling "love". If she isn't ready to do that sort of thing, you have to respect that - you can't make her do it and the more you ask, the more you'll make her unsure. You could get frustrated with each other after a while of this, so stop asking. Don't be as sexual with her. Stick to kissing. She will be ready soon enough and trust me, she'll let you know. I can't stress enough that the more you ask, the more she will question whether she wants to or not. She'll notice this change and ask if you're OK, so you can tell her that you don't wanna keep asking because you feel like you're pushing her, and you know that she will let you know when she's ready. If you want a woman to respect you, first you must respect the woman.

I'm new here, but I'll say this:

Have you licked her kitty? You think she'd she like you to?

If you're in bed laying together, "flip" yourself, and get to eating. As she gets into it, slide your groin closer, and go for the side-by-side 69.

Sounds like you may need to give if ya wanna get from this one...

thanks for advice for dalziel. yea i dont think i want to push her into, very good advice.

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Wow I made this subject ages ago and got only 1 or 2 crappy responses. Thanks for the resurrection and quality posts guys.

P.S. I haven't been on much in the past few weeks... I have a gf and I have been extremely busy but I'm still here .... I may be an rAFC for now... but im on the road

hey im a girl listen up haha

the first time i gave head. it was actually a dare. we were makin out and i was givn a hand job and then he was like i dare you to blow me. and i said oh ya. and i did it. try it. the second time this guy said wanna touch it....wanna lick it. now i laughed at this so that prob wasnt the slickest way, buy daring each other is def the way to go

Put your hand on her head and slowly push it down by your stuff she'll understand. Or maybe a cold read "You look very sexually inexperienced bet you don't know how to even give a decent blowjob."

biglo.......thats not a good idea. if a guy did that too me id bite his dick.

Yeah, right.

You are crazy.

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I meant when you and her are alone and shes like kissing you and keeps goin lower. I was just being funny or trying.

i would show value, saying that you dont sleep with girls that easy, but you do other things (dont hint the bj from that line, pleasure her) then when you are done after 10 min say "well you enjoyed yourself, guess its my turn" and if she isnt touching your dick already pull her in to kiss and put her hand there, pull back and smile and say "go for it"

since you pleased her, she feels like she has to, not in a bad way its simple a trade of sorts, just hope you can finger good enough to make her wanna suck you off

just my thoughts, i like head more then sex (another line i use but its true) so i have done this alot, i dont do routines these are off the top of my head ideas iv prob done in the past

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

social condition tells us that blowjobs is one step lower than having actual sex.

asking for a blowjob is a safer choice than asking for sex

my suggestion:

go down on her first. personally i love going down on a girl simply because I enjoy making her feel good, and its fun

once youve done it, in my opinion its almost expected that she return the favor.

if she doesnt do it on her own, mention your interested in a blowjob. "I want to feel your lips around me" is a perfect line to use after youve done it for her.

if she doesnt, then next time u fool around dont go down on her, if she asks for it, simply tell her "im not ready to do that yet" with a smirking grin

2 things happen there, she does it as she sees the "return the favor" idea, or she gets plyfully offended, at which point point it out ot her "hey if your not then im not, its only fair right?"

key is to come off playful but to stick to the concept.

verry good advise ive done the same thing.a girl only wanted me to go down on here.(i have no problum with that)but i wanted some to.so when i was done and she came i looked her in the eyes and said "your turn".best head ever.

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Get your laptop out or some other distraction when she is horny.

She will blow you and I'll bet you don't stick to the distraction for very long!!

i know right.i use the same thing but only with my cell phone,she will see that im texting another girl and do everything in her power to get me off that phone and onto her!!!

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