quick bump.

Ok guys. Here is the latest for those of you who care. We went out for a beer today and chatted it up.
We started talking about her living situation. Here is the convo:

Me:Do you own your own home?
her:No. I rent a duplex for 850 a month. Can't really beat that. Plus my boyfriend owns a home in North Tacoma and he is a keeper, I think.
Me: He is a keeper, you think?
Her:Well he hasn't done anything for me to think otherwise, yet. Although I wish he was more financially stable.

From this point we basically talked about finances and I stopped trying to game, because I felt like I didn't have a shot at this point. The way she said sounded like she was committed to him. We talked a little about relationships and she also mentioned that she has never cheated. I am dead in the water me thinks.

As I said from the beginning I didn't mind either way because I do have fun with her and I know she has fun with me. I feel a little let down but, I think she would be a great advocate for me since she has many connections in our industry and I don't mind being her friend.

Basically at the end of this meeting I LJBF her. Although I think I may have already been in this category, I just wanted to make sure she knew I was ok with. I told her that she is an awesome person and I appreciated her as a friend. She thanked me and hugged me so I think that I made it clear.

What I learned

Well first off I know that I need to sharpen my kino skills. I either did not read her right or I read her right and did not make the right moves soon enough. She may have also sent off false IOI's but I think this is not the case. Seems more to me that she just has a lot of spunk and she has a naturally flirty personality.

Gentlemen. Thoughts, ideas, and comments are appreciated. Would like some critique on my process and whether or not I read her wrong or have weak game or both and then some thoughts on what I can improve for the next go around.

My thoughts are I need to get past some AA so I feel comfortable approaching women in public and work on my kino. Once I get talking with a girl I am very good at push and pull and negging. I am naturally very cocky and have a sarcastic sense of humor that most people find funny.