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But follow me here, we know that we only can throw negs if there is already ATRACTION. Another reason to mantain calm is that if she is interested on you, a playfull joke will not get her mad.
Not at all....one should tease IN ORDER TO create attraction in the first place. Do not wait until you think she is attracted to you before teasing!
Another thing...these are not negs people....you are talking about teasing here.
The term 'neg' is thrown around a lot. A neg is not a playful comment at all, and should be said in a serious manner. It is simply to initially lower her value and disqualify yourself. This gets her seeking your approval and helps get your foot in the door etc etc. MM shit right.
The examples given in this thread are nothing more than teases.
..for The Genie...if she seems insulted then you haven't smiled 'enough' or you got too personal with her. Calibrate when teasing...some girls are obviously more sensitive than others. Also, if it appears you have insulted her, beware it MAY just be a shit test...so ALWAYS respond as if it is one...as in 'awe poor baby dont worry im sure you'll be just fine' smiling at her in a playful kind of way possibly even getting kino by rubbing the side of her arm gazing into her eyes, as a mother would do to a child. This will convey that she is being silly by taking offense to your playful comment and she'll snap out of it. And hell you got some kino at the same time right.
You seem as if you are worried about offending the girl. Start pushing your boundaries and see how far you can go, use your next few sets as Guinea pigs....you will be surprised at what you can get away with. You will eventually get a good feel as to how far you can go in social situations and as a result you'll come across a lot more confidently. If you are not congruent when teasing you have much greater chance of insulting her...if you are not sure if your comment is going to insult her or not and you issue the comment hesitantly, the playfulness will not be conveyed, which means insult.
As for thinking of teasers on the spot? exaggeration is the easiest IMO as you can use this off pretty much anything she says...a few good examples have already been given by Turn Up The Night. Those are classic examples of teases.
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