Trust me, I was going to.

Was? it's is or isn't.

Was is like doing push-ups on your knees.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I am going to.

But I have to do so in a way that it's not just another visit to a hooker.

Thanks for calling me out on the fear. Never even realized that's probably my main problem and source of anxiety.

Two quotes come to mind...

"You fear what you don't understand."

And...

"Fear leads to anger." (And frustration, hopelessness, etc.)

What is there to be scared of exactly?

You are scared of success with women because you are so used to your perception of failure with women. Do you have a domineering mother?

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Here is exactly how.

Take sex out of the equation.

You want to go in with the express purpose of learning how to interact with a beautiful woman. Sticking your dick in it is the easy part. But it's also where your biggest fear of rejection is coming from.

Tell her up front sex isn't on the menu.

I also suggest taking her somewhere you frequent.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Do I have a domineering mother? She tried to be, but I fought back.

Yes, maybe I am scared of the success I so desperately want. Whining about what a failure I am with women has become so ingrained in me, I wouldn't know what to do with myself otherwise.

Yes, I should go to a place I frequent with a beautiful woman and let everyone I know see.

Preselection = rise in social status and if other girls find out I'm willing to dish out money, maybe it would attract them.

Here's a message from one of the sugar babies. What should I say? What should my mindset be? You told me to take sex out of the equation. This is on text after she sent me a bunch of pictures.

Me:What are you trying to get out of this? Obviously you want some money, right?

Her:Yes I just lost my job and it's been hard to get a new one, so I am trying to pay my bills and all my girls told me about this and I finally decided to do it. What about yourself?

The old me would have replied with one word: "Sex."

You told me to take sex out of the equation. What do you think I should say?

Quite frankly, it would be a little odd if I didn't say sex. She might find it very strange if I say "I'm just trying to talk to someone and get to know them," but I'm open to suggestions from you guys.

Say, "Fun." It's still the truth.

If you fought back, you have a great chance at succeeding with women. I have a domineering mother and I fought back as well.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

See right there. You had a first thought and ditched it. It wasn't bad.

Say "I've been struggling to meet someone lately and could really use some friendly company."

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I used the "I've been struggling..." line and that's what I will tell every girl from now on.

I would go broke meeting all these girls.

I expect now to haggle over price. Lol.

I may have anxiety and be scared to approach, but I am not scared of sex. I've had girlfriends in the past and fucked them well and hard, not to mention all the prostitutes.

At least with a sugar baby (as opposed to escort), I can get head without a condom and maybe even fuck without a condom if she's on birth control.

Many of the girls on this site say how all the guys lie to them and coldly take advantage of their desperate financial situation to get free sex.

This was her response:

Her:Well I mean of course before anything I would love to see if we get along and could laugh with each other because it would be easier for everything. When would you like to meet ?

Seems like a fairly normal and standard response.

Now would you all like to know the embarrassing reason I'm going to put off meeting her?

You might laugh and you might think I'm crazy.

These girls are using the victim routine to frame you as a white knight in shining armor. Remain committed to your goal and be consciously aware of this frame trap.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I'm not too worried about that. At this point, we're doing our best to pretend she's not a prostitute.

But this meeting will be a good thing because it will bring out my personality (or personality flaws) and make me interact in person. I should take her out for a nice dinner.

I think I will be fine. This reminds me of a public speaking class I took one time where I was always severely nervous before the speeches, but did fine once I was speaking.

I suffer from erectile dysfunction. Ever since my first girlfriend, my anxiety made getting erections on the spot difficult. We would sit around for HOURS before I would actually be able to do something, but once I got going, it was good. I once stayed at a girls house and we would sometimes go a week without fucking due to this issue.

I had been relying on Viagra, but after 2.5 years, I grew a tolerance to it and every other form of ED medicine.

My only option is a surgery called a penile implant, which removes tissue from the inside of your penis (the tissue that fills with blood) and replaces it with chambers that I pump full of salt water. There will be a pump in my scrotum (kind of like a third testicle) and a reservoir of salt water in my abdomen.

I'm currently in the pre-op phase. Will hopefully get the surgery within 2 months.

Here is more info and a link to a video of the surgery. It's graphic, so be warned.

https://www.urologicalcare.com/penile-i ... -implants/

https://youtu.be/NmndQMwZOTE