So you don't like using protection?

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I have a mental thing with condoms, i just go soft or at best, semi. The more times it happens, the more i think about it with each meet, the worse it gets.
Though i managed OK last night for vaginal with a condom, in the morning we were spooning and rubbing against her and just slid in. Moment of weakness.

Had the clap once a few years ago, one pill and its gone, never anything worse and no pregnancy scares. Got a feeling im infertile

I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing having no child scares.

I feel you though on that moment of weakness. A few times I'd be hitting a chick from the back and the condom would break and I'd just keep going. I'll usually tell the girl.

We don't logically think about this shit when it happens.

What I like to do is put a bit of water based lubricant inside of the condom. Don't add too much or it'll slip off inside of her, but it makes it feel raw.

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Agreed. I also find that the five days out guys are the ones thinking relationship from the start (IE careful planning of the "big" date).

I've actually seen beautiful 20-somethings tell a guy straight up over text they don't want to sit through an entire dinner, that a drink was enough.

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No. Men with an abundance mentality don't need to say this. Also, completely ignoring her text makes you look butthurt. An indifferent man with options simply says, "cool, no worries". And waits for her to contact him next while pursuing other women.

This is the sound of a man who gets BJ's a couple times a week, lol. The story about the Italian cutie tells the girl you're desperate as fuck and have zero options, and you're a liar. The Italian story also fails to plant a seed for you. This girl is probably telling the exact or similar thing to other male orbiters. In a few months time, there's a good chance she'll remember you as the "guy who didn't give a fuck" against all the other emotionally-uncentered orbiters who threw a shit storm when they didn't get what they wanted from her. And that is a very big turn on for spoiled, hot women.

Part of being desperate is failing to understand that you will not get everything you want at the exact moment you want it. A dominant male understands that women, eventually will come around to him, and therefore there's no need to be angry or upset. He also understands that our daily interactions with women are not always about right now. They are often about planting seeds for weeks, months and possibly even years down the line. If done properly, there will always be women wanting you a phone call away. Solid abundance mentality is a self-perpetuating gift.

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i don't care what makes me look like whatever,specially for someone i have never met and probably never will,i don't have an ego problem,at least not like that,all that matters is why and how i feel and why did i said or texted anything to anyone,or didn't ,no explanation needed

Text her again just for lols with:

'So are you gonna suggest a reschedule, or is another quirky Tinderella going to take your place?'

'Depends, do you have other potentials?'

'You're not that naive, i just like a girl in a well fitted dress'.


Few others in the pipeline, where i need work is phone call game. Im witty and quick over text but can freeze up on the phone, i dont call people often. Should a phone call just be to arrange dates? I also have a bit of a monotone/stoned voice even though i dont do drugs.

This sounds needy.

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No, not "just for lols."

Arch Stanton explicitly, correctly, told you not to do that, and then you did it anyways. You're not original - guys do dumb stuff, make counterintuitive moves all the time, and generally try to justify it by saying how they just did it "for fun." You didn't do it for fun, you thought it'd make her jealous and more likely to engage.

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