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Alright brother check it out... I can dig u wanting to know the whole success rate how many blah blah blah. But I think u need to ask yourself what you're really in this for.... hopefully its to become the best man u can be. U can quote me on this... "If pickup ain't fun... you aint doing it right!" You want to be the type of guy who can just approach any girl you want whenever you want? Bottom line u jus need to put in the work everyday. Whenever u get a chance. See a girl u think is cute approach! Approach approach approach!!! Look at it this way... There is nothing in the universe more complex and interesting than the human brain. You have the opportunity to take an adventure every time you approach someone. And you give them the opportunity to take the adventure of getting to know you! AND ITS FREE!!! You want to be the type of guy that can just approach that girl when you see her that really catches your eye? Then you have to BE THE GUY that approaches cute girls whenever you see them! The bottom line is the more you do it the more comfortable you become. The more comfortable you become the more naturally comfortable you make every interaction. That in and of itself is an attractive quality. Pickup should never feel like work... It should be fun... It should be exciting!!! Always "Game" yourself inwardly. Tell yourself little jokes and keep yourself in a good headspace... Make it a point to enjoy yourself doing it! MAKE IT FUN!!! In daygame especially there is no need to be crazy! Just bring value... My approaches are very relaxed... smooth... friendly and easy going. I have about a 99.9% rate of making girls smile and say "thank you... you made my day" or some version of a positive response. It really is the most natural and should be excepted way to meet someone. Who ever said we have to go to a certain place called a "club" and get drunk to meet eack other. The most natural thing in the world is to see a beautiful girl in your day to day and want to go up and say hi !!! Craziest thing is... not a lot of people do it... GOOD more for us:)
Reason being there's a lot of social resistance in doing so: the Jackals most guys have in their head "I am not good looking enough/intelligent enough/tall enough/wealthy enough etc..".
If the internal dialogue didn't exist, or was altered to something more empowering...in other words if the guy felt attracted to HIMSELF first and foremost, approaching women would be a no-thing and he wouldn't give 2 fucks about a woman declining his advances.
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