Agreed. Still guilty of this myself sometimes. Treating a hot woman as a non-hot equal thrills them.

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Well I wasn't pedestaling her hotness when I saw her it was just a shocked to see kinda situation. I mean when we first met we were on bikes and she approached me. This time were on bikes again and I approached her. In the reality of things, we most likely won't be meeting and I really don't mind as I considered her out of my like a long time ago. It was just an interesting thing to see her again last Saturday. Almost seemed like something from a movie I swear.

I assume this is the case as well. However...

Update!

She text me back late tonight around 10:30 saying this...

Her: Hi (Name), sorry for the slow response. I've been mired in work. Will be leaving for a 2 week work trip on Tuesday. But yes, racing! This is my first season! The race we met was my second race ever - I'm enjoying it so far!

I didn't text back as It's close to 11pm. I try not to send text out past 11pm unless it's a super close friend or family member. I shutdown phone stuff after 11pm that's just the way it is.

Anyway, would this be a good time, say in the morning to try and schedule a meetup. You've mentioned before to try and get her to meet. "I was thinking that it would be nice to catch up over a drink. Would love to hear what you've been up to in these last two years. Let me know if you're free to chill anytime soon."

Is this something that should be mentioned after a few back and fourth text? All help appreciated.

Hey. So, I think it's promising she sent a text. But she's sending you some hints that she's not available right now, Either she's genuinely busy and isn't in the right head space to really connect with you rn, or she's just not available (maybe bf, maybe lack of interest, maybe other things that only she knows, maybe she's clueless and thinks you're just being nice).

There really is only one way of finding out though, which is to just muster up your courage, take a risk and ask her out. I mean, it sounds like if you just do this back and forth, you're gonna be waiting around. So, if you wanna take the risk and know now, just skip the back and forth, text her tomorrow evening and say something, like... "Congrats on the 2nd race! That's awesome. Sounds like we have some catching up to do. We should fill each other in over a drink. Lemme know if/ when you're free."

Or if you wanna play it safe, just leave it. Or wait until a couple weeks when she's gonna be back in town. I'd say just take the risk. The worst that can happen is you'll be rejected and you'll be in the same place as before, maybe a little ego bruised, but you can handle it. At least you'll know and it'll save you time and energy. Chances are, either way (whether you ask her out or you don't) you're gonna be thinking about it. Best possible scenario is she's into it and then who knows what might happen. You won't know unless you go for it dude.

Keep me posted.