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Yeah, we slept together, I should've put that in the OP.
I've been thinking about this situation this week and I've developed a zen mindset about it - Things didn't work out for a reason, and if she gets together with my friend then they get together. Nothing I can do about it. There are other girls out there for me that would be a better match. As of now I'm keeping things cordial with him, but I've been closed off talking about my personal life and keeping things strictly business.
My friend also has some white knight tendencies, but I never really noticed them till now. In the past he's sided with girls when they broke up with his friends on a couple of occasions. Yesterday he mentioned he was texting about the plot of a movie with the ex of a good friend of his, even though the break-up was nasty as hell and fucked his friend up. I also remembered that his last long-term relationship was with a girl another friend of his had been with, even though once again that girl and that friend had a messy break-up. He's definitely thirsty and not against throwing close male friends under the bus for even the slightest whiff of pussy. He's got a great job and makes great money, but he's mentioned before he has a hard time meeting girls and has consistently shown to have no game knowledge. What better way to get with girls than to find those he has the most social proof with, AKA platonic friends or girls his friends have been with.
Stop being a whiny bitch and put your big boy pants on and move on. This is only an issue becase YOU are making it an issue.
You dated for 3-4 weeks, not years. Your above post reeks of jealosy, even if it is true and your friend is a white knight. You are no longer dating her, and your friend at least had the decency to mention his interest, even if he has been a bit of a twat about it since, probably because you're being a twat about it as well.
If your friend crashes and burns or succeeds, you should release your negative energy and detach yourself from any outcome. It's no longer your issue.