You're right man. I totally understand what you're saying. With the social media age going on how do you expect to cold approach a woman nowadays without her feeling creeped out or uncomfortable. I live in a place where the men outnumber woman quite a bit so the social situation isnt always great. Imagine going to house parties where theres a ratio of 20 guys to 2 girls and both girls have their boyfriends there lol. What i've noticed from experience is that you cant just approach a woman especially if you are by yourself. Its a quick way to make a girl uncomfortable. lol Might be different in warmer climate areas where people interact more in public.

Girls can be picky and stuck up when they know men outnumber the women lol. You would be suprised how many guys in the US dont get laid because of this issue. Maybe the other guy was right about spotlight. hmmmm...