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OP here again. Thank you for the input. In regards to the hand holding, I used to do that until recently as I've been trying to portray myself more as the adventure sex guy vs the bf. Isn't public handholding a form of mate guarding? Unless you're referring to holding her hand in yours while you're both seated? Then I could see that as a way to test her reaction (i.e. whether she squeezes your hand back) to create an "it's on moment."
Holding a girl's hand very early in the sarge gives you an opportunity to escalate very fast. Once you get a woman comfortable with holding hands, you can place a woman's hand on your chest. When you have isolated her to your apartment, you can place her hand on your thigh, and then afterwards on your cock.
You should always portray yourself as a fun and sexual guy. To package yourself as a fuck buddy instead of a boyfriend, refrain from taking the girl to dinner dates in restaurants after you've fucked her, refrain from being a shoulder to cry on, refrain from texting or seeing her too much, and keep your trysts to once a week and just pure fucking.
Girls change their mind a lot. They're fickle minded. As long as you're consistent with the frame that girls can only use you for sex and NOT for fancy dinner dates in restaurants, theraphy, and lots of time invested, then you can sustain the frame that you're the fun and sexual guy.
You can also frame yourself as a gigolo; where women pay you for sex and your time but that's another story.
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