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Long story short...
I met this girl few weeks ago on something like business training.
We hang out, hook up eventually went home to her place and had sex.
Few days later same story.
Yesterday she called me to go to her place again (it is in a kind of distant neighborhood) and I denied, because 1st I wanted to hang out with friends 2nd didn't wanted to go to her place again (she lives with her parents and I don't know her that well, so I don't feel that comfortable going to into "her territory" although I went there two times). I told her to come to my place - I live alone in an apartment in the center of the town, 10 minutes away from her workplace. It is way more convenient for both of us.
Anyway today she called me telling me: "we need to talk" I was like (o shit, i know what comming) and inevitably she said: "I don't think things between us are going to work out".
I just said: "do you want something from me?"
She: "we better not see each other for a while - better remain just friends"
I: "mm deal - take care, bye?" (didn't wanted to sound like harsh asshole, but didnt wanted to sound like a wuss neither - that is why i kept it short like that)
I've been LJBF-ed before as well, I probably had to tell her that I don't accept the "offer", but I already hung the phone.
Idk if there was a better way to work that out? SO that is my question: what was the best way to work that out.
PS: She was cute and the sex was good, but she was not really my temperament. We had slightly different interests and I had the feeling she was trying to impose her will on me - in other words telling me what to do and not to (to which I felt a bit like my freedom was taken) Plus she smoked. I don't like smoking.
Trust your gut. It's telling you something. So long as you do things in-line with the man you are (e.g. your values, beliefs etc) you can't go wrong. The self-doubt has crept in a bit mostly because you'er thinking with your dick. If you weren't attracted to her you'd feel stronger in your convinctions/more certain in your decision.
Well it is not that I'm madly into her. More like even the opposite. I know lots of other girls that are attractive as well and fit better my personality. I get your point however. I always have something in mid when the things go too good too soon. Either a red flag, either ex bf, either whatever. I know that from past experience.
Btw she texted me on SPAM the other day saying: "Hey how are you?". I was just about to go out and I told her that I'm going to work out. She replied: "well nice work out". When I got back I said: "it was good thanks".
I don't ask advice on this one. I just share the rest of the story for if someone is interested.
I know what she is doing - she is probing me to see if I will react emotionally. Women do like that often.
I don't like playing games. Most of the time I tell straight forward whats on my mind.
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