Massive stuff posted. Another thing you and your alter ego have in common. Don't tell me you live in the Atlanta area too.

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I'm going to have to ask you to not derail my thread with these wild accusations. I'm here just helping people, spreading love, and trying to better myself as a person. i don't have anything to sell, and this is an anonymous forum.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HccL8jUIIWU - Adoration of the Magi Lupe Fiasco

Second chances

The first impression is critical. You only have the ability to make one. In another thread the user and I determined he was bad at making them. Admittedly I don't always make a great first impression either.

I'll often get a girls phone number, we'll be texting and she'll go cold for some reason. it happens to everyone. You can however, get a second chance at a first impression. The trick is to learn your lessons from the first interaction and don't repeat the same mistakes.

Here is how, if you have her number and she goes cold, don't delete the number. take note of the last message you sent her, and contemplate why she went cold on you. What mistakes (with her) could you have made. Wait a month and re-initiate contact in a fun a playful manner, she'll ask "who is this?" I'll often answer with something like "Your prince charming." or something to try and get her to laugh, then just tell her my name, and use something that made her laugh in the past to spark her memory in a positive way.

Then contact is initiated again, and she'll either continue the fun interesting conversation, or be stuck in the past and go cold on you again. Either way, you made the effort and you won't know unless you try.

This will allow you to salvage cold numbers sometimes. What I do is put a follow up date next to the contact when she goes cold, and a note of something she liked I can leverage as call back humor.

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"Keep your head up in the sky, you just a baby."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HccL8jUIIWU - Adoration of the Magi Lupe Fiasco