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Dragula
PostPosted: Tue Apr 07, 2015 7:43 pm 
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Agreed. I don't tell them but I guess by accident, I would bring a different girl to the work xmas party or bump into one of them in the city and thus they will tell everyone else, so these days I talk less but they see that I got shit handled. Showing is more powerful than telling.

I think the physics teacher is a bad example though, for some reason people seem to think being good with women is not to be learned and most people think they are lady killers and will never admit that there could be improvement (majority mindset of typical people).

But I agree though. My friend said I was naive for spending money on this part of my life and yet when I could learn myself , but then I find out he pays a gym instructor to help him become fit. I agree you don't have to pay to get good at something, but it can help with a boost and motivation.

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Agreed. I don't tell them but I guess by accident, I would bring a different girl to the work xmas party or bump into one of them in the city and thus they will tell everyone else, so these days I talk less but they see that I got shit handled. Showing is more powerful than telling.

I think the physics teacher is a bad example though, for some reason people seem to think being good with women is not to be learned and most people think they are lady killers and will never admit that there could be improvement (majority mindset of typical people).

But I agree though. My friend said I was naive for spending money on this part of my life and yet when I could learn myself , but then I find out he pays a gym instructor to help him become fit. I agree you don't have to pay to get good at something, but it can help with a boost and motivation.
Yeah of course. I don't walk around with a t shirt saying " I pick up women", but I just don't hide it. lol

I don't see anything wrong with paying( of course), I believe that every investment, whether it be through time, money, or energy is a seed being sown into universal soil. So I think that will manifest in your life either way, even if you hire the worst teacher on earth. You'll attract whats yours one way or another. We always reap what we sow.

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I get you man.

All I'm saying is..becoming even better all starts with changing your thinking. I used to think like this as well, but the moment I changed my thinking, my game instantly got better.

I used to hope there weren't many guys at the party, etc..

Now I don't give two shits if the parties packed with guys. More friends to make.. I'm going to get mine no matter what. But I didn't start getting mine no matter what until I started thinking his way.

I'm at a cafe on this forums now and I remember the times when I started on this forum 5 years ago and I'd be turning and darkening my screen because I was almost embarrassed that someone would see my screen and see "Bang Women" Ads and " pick up artist on the screen. Now I'm like so what? I want people to come ask me questions.. I embrace my truth. I own all of my actions. Who am i hiding shit from? I have control over my life and I WILL make a way for myself. I'm honest, I treat people with love and respect, what would could they want? Me to base my life around their opinions too? Lol come on...

So I understand you bro. I'm just pushing you to be better.
I see what you mean and respect it. I also really appreciate your consideration, but I have one question for you then: what made you change your way of thinking? I mean, all my big changes in my character had reasons and experiences behind them. What happened that changed you from what I am in what you are?

I have these epiphanies man. And I also challenge discomfort because that shit bothers me. When I feel like " shrinking" because of outside circumstance I know something is wrong. And one day I just snapped.. I'm like "Fuck that".. Why should I shrink enterally because of other people. So if its darkening or hiding my screen so people can't see it.. Theres a weakness there. You begin feeling weak and so you darken your screen and or adjust yourself, but why? You're giving into weakness? I feel like that shit taxes my life literally. Its like smoking a cigarette to me. I'm here to grow. And grow only. I'm not letting another human get in the way of my growth. Fuck them. If i have to be an outcast so be it. But ironically enough, more and more people have gravitated to me the more I become this way.

My dad also instructed me as a kid to not give two shits what people thought. As a child he would scream at me when I would let the perception of others weaken me. It didn't work in the moment.. I still cared. But as I got older, all of his old lessons began to manifest.
Thanks man! I hope to get to your level someday, but I'm still young... I got time for improving!
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