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Considered it, but extremely uneasy about it because I am the very first person on this exchange program (professional reputation), I'm not a direct hire by the school and they provide my housing. It's a huge risk to take when I don't know what the rules are and I'm sure as hell not going to try asking.
Wait, let me get the logic here: The off chance that you might get tattled on for sleeping with a student is more terrifying than the possibility of getting caught with a prostitute? Especially considering the relatively high chance that the prostitute could be one of the college students?
Yeah... not getting it. You're saying it's too risky to try picking up women so you do something that's actually even more risky and likely to have even worse consequences.
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Use your brain,
Yeah, my brain tells me I'm better off forming a relationship with an actual woman rather than paying for sex. Especially since "things are strict in Japan."
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There's a saying: When a person really wants something, they find a way to make it happen. If they don't really want something, they make excuses.
And people who are clueless about certain situations see everything as an excuse.
And people who cling to their excuses will never admit they are excuses.
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Well, throwing out the chances of getting busted by a colleague or sleeping with a student who might be going to my school
Which will look even worse when the prostitute you're banging turns out to be working her way through your college...
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(see above about CONSEQUENCES), there are very few people here who aren't middle-aged families or grandmas. Even so, my place is not big enough for hosting a ONS (not to mention slightly creepy looking on the exterior) and is a 20 minute taxi ride from the city center where all the bars are.
Dude, you're talking about Japan. The place where some hotel rooms are like 3' across. I'm pretty sure people still manage to hook up though. Hell, it should
help since you
want the physical closeness.
Seriously, if Japanese girls ran from small rooms Tokyo wouldn't be so overpopulated that it needed 3' wide hotel rooms!
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I'm starting to wonder if any of you even have careers if you're all so nonchalant about fucking students without even bothering to think about potential consequences.
If you really thought about the consequences, why are you breaking the law and risking your reputation by sleeping with prostitutes?
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