She's caught on that you are playing games with her and now she's playing games with you.

After awhile, it gets tiring being gamed by someone you're interested in, and you feel an urge to turn the tables on them.

She is clearly head-over-heels for you. This is not just a superficial attraction given your deeply-rooted friendship.

She may be one of those women who doesn't leave a boyfriend unless she has another guy there to cushion the blow.

I agree with the guys who suggested you get her alone with some alcohol, not to necessarily have sex with her immediately but to see if she'll open up about what her situation is with this guy and what she wants. You are doing a great job of being a challenge so keep that up.

Bro...it's just another kind of flirting. Stop overthinking and do something for fucks sake!!

No really, get her alone...that's all. Take It from everyone here....every single one of us it telling you that without a doubt this chick is begging for it. Don't be a tease

What do you mean "she caught on that you are playing games with her"? What makes you think that?

Also, what do you mean by "You are doing a great job of being a challenge so keep that up". That's cool but how exactly am I doing this from what you've read? sorry but I tend to overthink shit and miss the big picture...

I mean, for sure, I'd like to think she's head-over-heels for me but I keep having these doubts she's not. She tends to be quite physical with everyone, although with me it's a whole other level. Perhaps this is only because our friendship is so deep, no?

The tricky part here is that she doesn't drink a lot, and when she does, it's like 1 glass of wine so it's gonna be tough to make her open up about her situation.

Ok guys,

so for the first time, I'll be meeting her boyfriend tomorrow night. She's inviting her "closest friends" to her place tomorrow night for some drinks, it's her birthday.

Any advice/tips with regards to how to act while her bf is there? Are there any do's and dont's?

Be nice to the boyfriend, as a matter of fact, treat him better than you usually would based on his personality(unless he happens to be legitimately someone you'd like). Whatever he's like, act like he's cool and you like him.

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Thanks for the advice guys.

Update:

- I hooked up with a girl that's part of our very close 6-7 friends group - we didn't actually have sex (she was on her period) but we dry humped, kissed, made out for 1 hour or so on Saturday, she left me a HICKEY ON MY NECK.

- I saw the girl (one I want that has a bf) today for first time in 3 days and she saw my hickey - I thought my t-shirt would cover it entirely but it didn't, and she seemed extremely interested. She kept asking me what happened, to tell her who did it, etc.. I didn't and told her I'd tell her some other time, the other chick who I hooked up with was right next to me.

- Got home, got a message from the girl, asking me to tell her what happened. I was playing dumb, not saying very much, nothing at all really. She kept pushing, saying "telllll me", or "who is it??? ", "I want to know what happened", but I didn't tell her anything. She then went on to say: "we talk about our professional careers and studies issues so we should also talk about personal issues. Disclosure depends on level of friendship".

-I told her "Believe me, level of friendship is at max with you but don't think disclosure depends on friendship level". She said "I disagree" and then went on to say something about how she thinks I should tell her.

-She asked me if the girl I was with on Saturday was the girl that was ACTUALLY with me and I didn't respond.

Now, what exactly does all this mean? Is she jealous or something? Do "real friends", especially if it's between a boy and girl, behave this way?

Is the fact that I'm not telling her making her jealous or should I tell her if she keeps pushing? She's the girl I'd fall for if she had no bf so don't really know how to deal with this now.

She's prob a bit jealous CUZ SHE WANTS YOU so do something already

I hooked up with a chick from our common "friends group". I think she's a bit jealous but to be honest, she's giving so many contradictory signals. She's still extremely touchy, runs her hand through my hair, even grabs my hair and pulls in a very erotic way, touches abs/mid section very often, can't stand still when I'm around.

We were at a party on Saturday, I interacted with her a bit during that evening. At the end of the night, 3 different people came up to me and basically said "she's after you", "she's very interested in you", "she can't keep her eyes off of you". I kinda asked how they could tell. They said something like "when you weren't together, she kept looking for you, looking for eye contact, asking about me, etc..."

I don't really know what to do at this point. I hooked up with this other girl so I dunno how this changes things...

You started talking about "What you should do" about this girl on Dec 23, 2014...

That's 2 full months of sitting and pining and ignoring dozens of pieces of advice, all telling you the exact same thing. Act.

It's sad, and really lame.

Why even ask advice? You're just trolling at this point, and wasting everyone else's time.

In addition she has a boyfriend who you can bet is boning her at least once in a while, what's it matter who you hooked up with.

At this point I'm jus enabling your trolling, last comment from me on this topic.

No no man, I'm not trolling. I just wanna be sure not to mess anything up. I'm trying to describe the situation as well as I can but I don't think you guys realize how confusing her signals are.

Here's the thing: she's arguably the person I'm the closest to since I've been here, same with her in my case, so I don't want to lose her as a friend if I try a move and it ends badly. At the same time, she's giving all kinds of signs that she's very interested in me, but again, maybe she's just a flirty/playful person in general with everyone.

E.g. She used to play a lot of tennis a few years ago. For the first time in months, I went to play with her and another guy for 1 hour. She was so happy. Afterwords, the other guy left and I went to have lunch with her and she was telling me how incredible she felt cuz she loves the game and was soo happy I came to play with her. We hugged about 3 times for more than 6-7 seconds each time - really intense hugs - she was holding my hands as well at some point (like literally took both my hands in her two hands), made a few more playful touches,etc...

But is all this due to the tennis/"me having played her" thing or is it deeper?

Trust me guys, I'm not trolling. But everyone I've talked to about this issue is flabbergasted by her signals with me and how she acts around me.

The fact that I slept with one of our close friends (she doesn't know about this but has suspicion) might have made her give even more "double-sided" signals.